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So my bf and I (almost 4ys) had a mutual break up 2 months ago and the months leading up we both felt like friends more than in a relationship. We wanted to keep up but he wants to be “friends” that hangout and stuff. More in comments…
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Anonymous 3d

this sounds tuff but the only way to truely grow and be able to actually move on healthily is to cut things off. obviously u can do it in a respectful way, but that’s probably what’s best even tho it’ll hurt for awhile

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Anonymous 3d

you gotta just tell him you think it’ll be better for both of yall to just get some space to fully move on

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Anonymous 3d

I entertained the idea but I’m atp where I wish the absolute best for him and still care about him but I don’t want to hangout, keep our snap streak going, send tiktoks, etc. I feel bad for that but I don’t think it’s fair for either of us. We are also in completely different parts of life. He went into a trade and I’m abt to graduate college and continue my education. We met in high school so I feel like idk life without him so that’s why I can’t “end it” for real without almost daily…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Interactions. We don’t actually have conversations and it feels weird to see his name pop up on my phone. I just don’t know what to do or say and I need another girls opinion who isn’t my mom or best friend

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