Men seem to be very worried about this, but it’s truthfully so easy to not come across this way. Just start slow. Touch her hand/arm and try to see how she reacts to that. If she smiles, moves closer, or doesn’t seem tense, try to hold her hand or maybe move a hand on her thigh (not to too high up tho😭🙏) If she’s still cool, just ask. Women love a man thats direct, knows what he wants, and speaks with his chest. If she says no, respect that shit and you’ve successfully avoided looking rapey.
eye contact can tell you so much! not just looking at each other, genuinely gazing into each others eyes. if you look her in the eyes and she looks you in the eyes back, like you're just staring into each others souls, she wouldn't do that if she's not interested. also, if she's very smiling during all of this even if it's subtle, she probably wants you to kiss her. still not sure? slowly tuck a piece of hair behind her ear and then look back at her
and when i really really want to kiss someone, i make sure they’re looking at me, and do a little triangle thing with my eyes. look specifically at one eye, then the other eye, then look at her lips. keep looking from one eye to another to her lips. if you still can’t tell, just ask honestly, but these tricks always work for me