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Idk if this is the place to ask but should I be concerned if I can’t orgasm if i don’t hold my breath? It’s not like- a kink, I just CANT get there without almost blacking out lol
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Anonymous 14w

I also masturbate like 15+ times a day because it reduces my anxiety by quite a bit 😭- I’m worried it’s “unhealthy”

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Anonymous 14w

No but u can fight that by instead of clenching super hard (im assuming thats what ur doing) until u cum, clench then unclench and relax, repeat, and you’ll have a way bigger orgasm and might be able to get there without holding ur breath

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Anonymous 14w

If it’s to the point of almost passing out then yeah probably

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Anonymous 14w

Im similar in that regard i think its fine

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Anonymous 14w

This is what vibrator addict is like

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Anonymous 14w

i’ve never had an orgasm.. i don’t know how. i’ll start twitching but it’s like my body rejecting or refusing to finish

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Trust me, I’ve tried EVERYTHING 😭 - I really don’t know what the reason is behind it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Oh thats a good tip i hope this isnt like too tmi but j cant get there unless im like flexing my clit? It makes it impossible to cum with other ppl :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

I’ve never actually orgasmed from dih alone before lol, I ALWAYS need to have my vibe 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

okay so I think there are some broader issues going on here lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

what does that mean 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

feeling like you need to manage your anxiety that frequently and in that way.. that's the kind of thing I would definitely recommend therapy for

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Oh I’m medicated too dw lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

that's good ig 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Oh im talking like head or whatever like clit stimulation with a partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Ohhh I see, makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

no..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

Yeahh I’ve heard it’s really hard for some people, I’m interested to know the science behind why it varies so much. I guess you just have to try different things I guess lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Then you need to stop using the vibe for a while

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

I’ve tried 😭

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