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my bf likes this girls post that he used to be in love with, fantasized about being with her, sent her money on her bday while with me, etc. is this reasonable for me to be upset at and he could just stop liking the insta photos?? Or am I being irrational
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Anonymous 7w

actually i think at that point i would’ve left

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Anonymous 7w

oh FUCK him ur totally within reason to be upset

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Anonymous 7w

Girl I’m gonna be 100% he still wants her and at the first opportunity would leave you for her, get a better one, this one ain’t it

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t think the issue is the instagram post, the issue is how he views this girl. Does he give you gifts on your birthday, has he explained to you that he looks at her as a friend or is he just doing everything in secret. If he is going behind your back that’s a huge no no

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Anonymous 7w

As a guy: reasonable to be upset Idc about the post part. I still follow my ex on instagram, and if a post of hers came up I’d like it just like I like everyone else’s pics. Doesn’t mean I’m in love with her, it’s just another post on my feed. That’s really nbd. For lots of guys like me, that really doesn’t indicate anything. BUT why tf is he sending her money for her birthday??? That’s weird af

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Anonymous 7w

I would throw the biggest fit ever and probably leave but that’s the sort of relationship I refuse to be in

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Anonymous 7w

girl, it’ll be hard for a bit but put yourself first! 💗

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Anonymous 7w

Break up with him

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Anonymous 6w

Yes you’re not crazy, he’s not over her and is borderline emotional cheating

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Anonymous 7w

Echo chamber

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Anonymous 7w

Sure bud

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