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I don’t know why men expect us to care that they are single
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Anonymous 4w

Like that is the DEFINITION of not my problem

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Anonymous 4w

I’ve noticed that men project more than women… it’s one thing if you’re venting but another if you’re making it someone else’s problem… like you can’t force me into a situation just because you’re lonely

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Anonymous 4w

if your best friend her whole life, has not been in a relationship but thrives to be able to love someone in a relationship would you feel bad for her?

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Anonymous 4w

Homewrecker heritage post lmfao

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Anonymous 4w

Yea, yea good idea, shame for things we cannot control… no wonder.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Or when they're insecure about the size of their dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I mean I kinda get that bc body shaming exists. But again not rly my problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But that one I at least have some sympathy for, i understand body insecurity

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I wouldn’t if she started making it everyone’s problem and being mean and shitty to men and blaming them for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Also I’m referring specifically to men online that we don’t know. Like why do I care some stranger is single. I don’t know you. Yet all get in here and won’t shutup

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

one persons problem shouldn’t be everyone’s and you shouldn’t treat people bad because of your situation, but you can have empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Kinda hard to have empathy when its constant complaining from men about being single then them being blatantly sexist in the comments saying stuff like "women will go for ______ man 95% of the time" and just keep doubling down

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Why would I have empathy for people being assholes and complaining online. Over being single of all things. Like bruh whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like if guys were asking for actual sympathy maybe but it’s just asshiles baiting and bitching and being sexist so like. Meh, cope

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

most definitely understand that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I totally get it , I’m saying for the good single guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

The thing is the good single guys aren’t the ones who are expecting us to care. They aren’t the ones spamming this community, becoming incels, etc. and yeah I would have compassion for them but that’s just generally don’t ask for it, they deal with their feelings themselves or go to trusted friends rather than making it all women’s problems

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I understand

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Anonymous 4w

Funny you were one of the number one people I was thinking about when I made this post!

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Anonymous 4w

It’s literally not our problem, there is nothing we can do for you, and none of us rly care if some dude on the internet is single, yet you won’t stop coming here and pitching a fit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Lmfao he blocked me a few months ago bc I kept telling him that

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Anonymous 4w

Apparently you do bc you won’t stop coming on here trying to get attention. Not one single woman here cares you’re single and honestly the more you post the more glad we are women aren’t wasting time on such a shitty immature self absorbed person

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Anonymous 4w

You deserve to be single

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

How is it shaming?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

(I was reading on of the first posts in this thread)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I’m not shaming you for bing single I’m shaming the guys who won’t stop making it random women’s problem, which you can very much control

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