Ask Women on Sidechat | I have no bad intentions and I have made it apparent to talk to other ppl about the issue yk. My friend that I’ve known for years has been going through it bad bad and I am there for her. I def don’t mind it at all but is it bad that she’s.. (read below)

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I have no bad intentions and I have made it apparent to talk to other ppl about the issue yk. My friend that I’ve known for years has been going through it bad bad and I am there for her. I def don’t mind it at all but is it bad that she’s.. (read below)

Anonymous 2w

More comfortable talking to me? She has a bf and stuff and I’m not one to get in between that and stuff idk if this is a bad thing or not though at least I’m not thinking of it that way

Anonymous 2w

I had a similar experience where my friend was scared to tell her partner she was struggling out of fear that he would see her differently. I had to reassure her constantly that he wouldn’t. If you feel like it is something he needs to know, tell her that. If you need a break because everything is too much, tell her

Anonymous 2w

Nah you sound like a good friend

Anonymous 2w

Are you worried because you’re a guy? And you feel like it’s a bad look she would feel more comfortable talking to “some other guy” over her boyfriend? That’s the vibe I’m getting here because I feel like women don’t usually feel this and understand when women don’t want to tell their partners about something.

Anonymous 2w

Yk what they say a shoulder to cry on and a …. One thing leads to another but that’s up to u to stop and put boundaries do it now before it’s too late

Anonymous

OP 2w

Just tryna be a good friend and I do say to open up to other people, etc. I don’t feel forced to talk either. It doesn’t seem like anything yk but I just wanted to know anyone’s thoughts from an outside perspective since she’s been talking to me a lot more and stuff

Anonymous

#1 2w

That’s def what I was thinking just wanted to hear another perspective and stuff. It’s not up to me to decide who she tells and stuff yk but part of me kind of feels for the guy too yk wanting to be there for your gf during tough times but idk I guess that’s up to her

Anonymous

#2 2w

I think it’s the bf aspect that maybe I’m looking too deep into. I don’t have bad intent just wanted to know if it was bad her only coming to me and stuff ykwim idk. She said she was more comfortable but she was hesitant in her wording about it

Anonymous

OP 2w

I get it. It’s hard. But good for you for trying to help. Unfortunately, if she doesn’t want to tell him that’s just how it is going to be and she can deal with things if anything happens because of it. My friend’s boyfriend felt guilty that she didn’t feel confident enough in their relationship to tell him so hopefully that doesn’t happen to you

Anonymous

#1 2w

Yeah hopefully not. Thanks man

Anonymous

#3 2w

I mean yeah women don’t feel it but that’s kind of what it is. I feel like women don’t get the principle behind the kind of things. It’s no ill intent on my end just being a good friend ofc but to women don’t usually feel this dismisses the guy pov when they’re indirectly the part of concern idk if it was the other way around I would feel some way about it yk so I’m hoping she talks to him or something ofc but obviously it’s not that simple. But I hear your point. Not feeling something doesn’t

Anonymous

OP 2w

Doesn’t - mean it’s not there (not feelings but the context of talking or something)

Anonymous

#4 2w

Ofc and I do but I feel like at the end of the day it’s up to them to figure out where their choices are. I wouldn’t do anything or think for anything more than what it is but I’m a guys guy yk gotta consider other parties but obv she’s going through it so I’m just being a good friend whilst having concerns that are probably not mine to worry about I guess