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last night while i was half-asleep my bf of 1 year said something abt getting married. we had just had really good sex followed by a heart-to-heart. i was out, so i think i just made a vague noise i love him a lot, should i say something today?
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Anonymous 7w

Yeah. Probably talk about it when you’re fully there lol

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Anonymous 7w

(we're both in our mid 20s so don't envision two 18-year-olds lol)

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Anonymous 7w

I think you should bring it up but in a sly way like how do you feel about our relationship? When do you feel is the right time to talk about marriage? Talk around it cause maybe he didn’t mean to say it or said it in the heat of the moment and might be embarrassed if you aren’t (which you are) on the same page

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Anonymous 7w

How long have you been living together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

we don't, but we spend 4ish nights a week at each others' homes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Definitely talk about it, but my advice is to live together for at least a year before even getting engaged. You learn a lot from living together and dealing with finances as a couple

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