Anonymous #1 4w

I have asked her if she was willing to initiate more and if she can do more foreplay (oral, caress etc). She said I taste a bit too salty that’s why she doesn’t go down on me much, and when I said If she’s open to trying flavored lube and stuff she said yes. But she never brings it up again or does anything about it other than saying she is willing to do it.

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Anonymous OP 4w

As for feeling enthusiastic/excited for me sending her pics or complimenting me, how do I communicate this to her? It’s just gonna feel like she is gonna do it forcefully and it won’t be natural at all?

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Anonymous OP 4w

I think the best course of action is finding out WHY she’s been less enthusiastic before asking her to change things

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Anonymous #2 4w

I mean she’s on anxiety meds, but she was also on them before we started dating and first started dating. But I felt like things were very different when we first started dating

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Anonymous OP 4w

And I do everything I can to make her feel pretty, wanted and loved.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Like I sent a shirtless pic earlier and her reaction was like “ohhhh” 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 4w

Yeah like 2 said definitely try to understand her before you try to change her. Are things stressful in her personal life right now? Has she made any recent lifestyle changes? For the lube thing maybe she’s just waiting for you to actually get some

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Anonymous #1 4w

Nothing really stressful, she recently got a full time job as well after graduation. And that prolly relieved a lot of her stress. I haven’t noticed any recent lifestyle changes that wasn’t there before. And for the lube thing, like I said I don’t want to be the one bringing it up all the time, I just hoped she would actually ask about it again 😭

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Anonymous OP 4w

I mean you already asked her if she would be open to using flavored lube and she said yes, the logical next step is to actually get some.. full time jobs keep people busy, job security is a stress relief but having a job can still be stressful, keep that in mind

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Anonymous #1 4w

You could also try taking showers before having sex if smell/taste is an issue

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Anonymous OP 4w

Have you asked if you might be doing something in the relationship that’s turning her off. Sometimes women’s sex drives drop when they are unhappy with something in the relationship

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Anonymous #2 4w

I have and she has said it’s not me.

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Anonymous OP 4w

And the taste waste mostly related to my precum/cum so I don’t think a shower would’ve helped :(

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Anonymous OP 4w

But honestly I was most hurt that she just said “ohhhh” and not even like a positive reaction when I sent a picture 😭

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