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My boyfriend and I took a little break because he’s controlling manipulative and abusive, but I can’t help but miss him. I’m so lonely right now but because of him, I literally have no friends to talk to. Help.
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Anonymous 1w

You don’t actually miss him. You miss the connection. That’s what he wants. If you feel alone you’ll go back to him and not want to leave again. It will hurt more now to not go back, but it’ll hurt worse in the long run to go back. Going back would be like taking an ibuprofen for a broken foot, sure it might help now, but it’ll hurt worse later

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Anonymous 1w

The key is time. Give it time and you will find yourself and your people!!

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Anonymous 1w

there’s a good chance you don’t have friends because he’s controlling and manipulative. do not get back together with this guy. try making friends, and you’ll find someone who actually respects you in the process, best of luck :)

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