
If you’ve talked with her and neither of you can come to an agreement, it’s simply not working. To preserve your dignity, I would leave her unless she gives you a set plan of how she wants to change (if that’s really what she wants). You should still leave if she’s changing just to change because that will cause resentment. I am a woman who likes men. Even though I’m becoming an MD, I want a man who enjoys providing for me. If he’s not happy doing this, I would also leave him. Best of luck, OP.