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Would you rather option 1. Have an engagement ring and wedding band of unlimited budget but no wedding ceremony or Option 2. Have a wedding ceremony with an unlimited budget but extremely cheap engagement ring and wedding band (both under $300)
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Anonymous 1d

who cares about the huge party its the marriage that you're celebrating and putting work into. my bf and i are doing a small ceremony in a national park

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Anonymous 1d

There are very pretty wedding rings for under 300 dollars. What matters is putting in effort and care.

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Anonymous 1d

Rather a cheap ring and save for a big wedding. I can always upgrade the ring at any time

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Anonymous 1d

neither please

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Anonymous 1d

Where’s the real best option: neither, have a small ceremony, cheaper ring, and put the extra towards a down payment for a house! This is what I actually want!

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Anonymous 1d

What about the reception

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Anonymous 1d

Personally, I just wanna splurge on the honeymoon

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

And I’m not a ring person so I’d feel bad if he bought a very expensive ring for me to not wear it unless we’re in public and then I fidget with my rings too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

The ceremony is like 30 minutes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

See I even think this is a waste of money. A “big wedding” is literally just putting on a show for family and friends. It has nothing to do with the couple. I say, save that money and put it towards a house! That way you’ll be setting yourself up for success and stability rather than splurging thousands on 1 night.

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