out society still has very rigid ideas about masculinity. queer men are often stereotyped as less masculine, and bc people are socialized to associate masculinity with certain traits, some women may perceive queer men as less attractive if they see them as falling outside those norms. homophobia is often tied to these rigid gender roles so they kinda coincide

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Like obv no straight woman is obligated to be attracted to every type of man, im just like why cant we unpack the Why?

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Excellent question

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