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Why do they think cold approaching is the only option😀 We want to meet organically through friends, through work, through school, ect 😭😭
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How am I supposed to meet women when they hate being approached but also don’t approach? Do I just accept that I’ll die alone?
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Anonymous 2w

Once you're out of college its fkn hard to make friends or find community in general. Nobody is making it easy. If you're trying to find people via friends to lovers trope, that requires being friendly to strangers! Or accepting the invite to go to social events. Maybe going to your local gym or join a book club. You're doomed to be disappointed if you only want people to approach you in the way you want them to.

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Anonymous 2w

They desperate and also don’t realize women will drop hints if they actually want to be approached

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Anonymous 2w

That’s what I keep telling em and they don’t want to believe it 😔

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Anonymous 2w

I might be just a guy, but it can definitely either be hard to notice the signs of them being attracted to you or just don’t get them so you either don’t approach or cold approach.

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Anonymous 2w

Step 1: be hot and socially affluwnt Step 2: that’s it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Work is a bad way to meet people but everyone knows that and why

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

And I’ve heard women don’t like to have men become friends with them only to say they have feelings later

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Well yeah duh don’t become friends only to ask them out.. become friends with women who you genuinely enjoy the company of lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Then why basically tell men to become friends with women for their goal of getting a date if you believe that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Because obviously knowing more women would increase likelihood of meeting one that you are compatible with. Women introduce you to other women, or you fall for eachother organically. I never said become friends with a woman with the intention of dating her down the line lol, I said I’d rather meet through friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Everyone is hot to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I am very good friends with women and they have never done that before

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Ok well speaking from experience I’ve made guy friends (without the intention of dating) and down the line we both fall for eachother organically. I promise it happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Its not as common anymore I dont think but you can always just ask and be forward with what you want

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