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my bf of over a year had his ex on snap this morning. when i asked him to unadd her he got defensive. what do i do
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Anonymous 2w

That is seriously sus

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Anonymous 2w

if you think it's that serious, tell him it's a strict boundary for you and he has to pick her or you

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Anonymous 2w

leave him, if he’s getting defensive when you tell him to unadd HIS EX that means they’re still talking and you do not want that

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If you trust him enough I would say don’t worry, but do talk to him about it and if it’s not in your boundary express it. Me personally I would never let that slide because their your ex for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i told him next time i see an ex in his phone he’s done bc i haven’t said a word to any of mine since we got together. it’s not hard to not break no contact yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Especially snap where messages disappear… I’d be pissed. My ex was texting his ex while we were together, Ik it was as friends and not cheating but still just so disrespectful and not okay at least imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

literally!! like idgaf what the context is, you shouldn’t be talking to an ex while in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ok, I understand this but my bf has his exs added on insta and will occasionally text them. I don’t mind because I can see what they say and I know he broke up with them on good terms. I also told him there’s strict boundaries (lik I don’t want him talking to them on a daily basis but I don’t mind if he send them random funny insta reels)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I would defo have a long conversation tho abt it. Say that you are uncomfortable with it and set boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I think you’re giving him too much slack, you’re giving him the opportunity to fuck up again, consider considering that you found an ex on his phone just means he’s going to be more secretive about it now

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