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How do y’all deal with a creepy af classmate who’s +50yrs older? I’ve resorted to ignoring him and avoiding him but, he’s seems to not understand. A bunch of other women have told me he’s made inappropriate comments to them too, as well as a prof.
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Anonymous 3w

Can you report him?

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Anonymous 3w

speak to your dean of students. hell maybe even campus police

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Anonymous 3w

Talk to your professor about it. I had an issue with a classmate who was making a bunch of Instagram/snapchat accounts after I blocked his, and my professor transferred me to a different unit. The stuff with the kid got worse and my prof reported it to campus PD, and I felt like they did a good job addressing it

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Anonymous 3w

Cont. I was nice to him when we had classes together but, since he’s sent me an email directly saying he “doesn’t wanna have sex” with me, it’s gotten SUPER awkward. He’s harassed other girls, been talked to twice already by the chairman. But, everytime I see him, I just remember the time he talked to me about his ex’s and his swinging session….

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Anonymous 3w

Feed him to the raptors

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

He’s not done anything physically and I’ve done pretty well with ignoring him. Plus, campus police in my Uni are basically glorified paperweights. And my chairperson is about 2 weeks away from retiring and doesn’t care. Plus, creep has had a meeting with the chairperson already, and he basically had a small man temper tantrum. We currently have no dean too, so, I can’t report it any further up the totem pole.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

I’ve tried, our chairperson is retiring, they’ve got meetings back to back. I’ve tried scheduling stuff with them but, it’s falling to the wayside. I’ll wait till the new chairpersons in office and have a one on one with them. I think it’ll be more effective. The prof I’ve talked to have basically said, “Yeah, he’s weird and creepy but, just ignore him. He can’t do anything.”

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