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Should i tell a girl im a virgin b4 sex
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Anonymous 3d

Absolutely

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Anonymous 3d

yeah prob a good idea so they know you’re learning

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Anonymous 3d

why not

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Anonymous 3d

Yes I think that is a very important conversation

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Anonymous 3d

Personallyyy I would be so much more attracted to someone if they told me that

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Anonymous 3d

YES.

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Anonymous 3d

Yes you should bc it causes attachment 😭

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Anonymous 3d

Yes

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Anonymous 3d

absolutely. one of the first things you tell her if the goal is to hook up

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Anonymous 2d

whoever uses the word hoer please stay away from women

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Anonymous 2d

YES

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Anonymous 3d

depends on how serious yall are

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Anonymous 2d

Yes

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Anonymous 2d

Yes

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Anonymous 2d

Yes

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Anonymous 2d

yeah I would

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Anonymous 2d

No, during

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Anonymous 3d

No

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Anonymous 3d

If it gets to that point it’s a rough sketch. 99% of women are solely focused on how good sex feels due to being hoers so when you get to that point make sure there’s other signs that they actually care about you and aren’t testing the waters Also if they’re texting other guys? Huge red flag. Force them into wanting to have sex, but always remember they aren’t actually intrigued if they talk about other men with you. They’re focused on sex if they do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

What if theyre like ew wtf and leave

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

i PROMISE you no grown woman would say that & if they do that’s your sign to run while you can

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

If they say that then you don’t wanna have your first with her anyway. first time is usually awkward

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

any woman who says this isn’t worth having sex with

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

What in the fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3d

you must be a man 😭 not telling her so yall can talk about it and communicate about expectations is a recipe for disaster

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

?? explain to me why telling him to not fuck a woman who says “ew wtf” isn’t worth losing his virginity to is a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I personally get more attracted if a man’s a virgin.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3d

And I know the sharks are gonna say “forcing to want sex” remember “want” is still consensual you fucking idiot. Guys want sex too, but it’s important to understand natural hoer energy in the big 25

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2d

no that’s still crazy, pls stay away from women

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2d

Incel

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

*person doesn’t want to have sex with women* “Stay away from women!!!” Actual sexual assault energy

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2d

“*doesn’t want to have sex with women*” “FORCE THEM TO WANT IT 🤬” if you have to use force for a woman to want it, that’s coercion and you ARE involuntarily celibate if it gets to that point

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

Doing something “against their will” is directly against the definition of “want” Try again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2d

quick question, do you know what coercion is?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

If the roles were switched, nobody would call a woman that is wanting a man to work for sex to want to have sex with her. And that’s completely natural. There should be no difference the other way around.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats. There is no threat. There is a direction as to what they should want, as opposed to being a choice amongst a sea of other men to chose from Same with men who sleep with many women. That’s what the word “want” differentiates.

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