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Do you believe some men are not attractive enough to date?

Anonymous 3d

Yeah duh, some got crooked yellow teeth or they say or do something that makes them automatically ugly. Why would I date you if you can’t dress well or put in any effort to go get haircuts.

Anonymous 3d

attractiveness is subjective. Think of it this way. Person A might find Person B extremely attractive but Person C doesn't consider that Person B extremely attractive. Person C wouldn't even consider dating Person B bc they don't find them all that attractive. Does that mean Person B is overall unattractive?? No bc Person A has a huge crush on Person B, so they are attractive just not Person C.

Anonymous 3d

Yes

Anonymous 3d

Physically, no. Behaviorally, YES. Predators should be forever lonely. Billionaires should be shunned— if they ask you out, tell them to fix homelessness before they ask again. The over 50% of men who admit to SA should all be lonely until they get their shit together. And people with poor hygiene should brush their teeth before kissing anyone.

Anonymous

#1 3d

I see appreciate the brutal but honest response

Anonymous

#3 3d

It becomes complicated when Person B might not find Person A attractive. It doesn't mean that Person A is unattractive, it just means that Person B doesn't find them attractive. So it all just depends. I do think there r some universally agreed upon attractive people in the world, mostly celebrities but I think even then there r people out there who wouldn't find them all that attractive. Objective attraction is different than personal attraction.

Anonymous

#3 3d

like you can say Kim Kardashion is objectively attractive person but a lot of people wouldn't date her bc she just isn't their type. Doesn't mean she's ugly tho

Anonymous

#3 3d

all this to say, if someone told you, you weren't attractive enough to date, they for one shouldn't have said something so cruel and two they made a harsh generalization about you based on their biased feelings. what they meant was weren't attractive enough to date THEM. im sure you're not fully attracted to every women you've ever seen and the same goes for straight women. however if that is the reason you turn someone down its common courtesy to not say its bc of how attractive they are

Anonymous

#3 3d

and i'll get off my soapbox after this, if a woman rejects you that doesn't automatically mean you're unattractive. it just means she wasn't interested in a relationship with you. it could mean a plethora of reasons. maybe she has a boyfriend, or maybe she has a crush on someone else, or just got threw a break up, or maybe she just doesn't want to date atm, or maybe she's abt to move. there r sooooo many possibilities.

Anonymous

#5 3d

Oh and if they’re racist, sexist, homophobic, or transphobic, they should not be anyone’s father. You can date them if you want, but DO NOT have kids with them. All that bullshit is transmitted vertically, so it’s our responsibility to stop it at its source.