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I feel like I might never get married (22m) as I’m still sexually inexperienced and every attempt at relationship never worked out or I was not chosen. I feel my upbringing and weird family is the reason why. it feels kinda isolated, I might become a monk
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Anonymous 4w

you're 22, you've got time. i know it sucks though

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Anonymous 4w

If you drop the incel thinking and learn to love yourself this wont be an issue for you

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Anonymous 4w

You’re only 22 that’s hella young. And if you stop thinking so sexually you’ll likely get more chances. You being inexperienced will not matter in the long run. Bc your experience won’t correlate to if you have a good relationship or not either. A lot of ppl have weird families just don’t let your family get in the way of happiness. If you have those families that try to purposefully embarrass you or something like that

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Anonymous 4w

Stats show everyone in our age group so struggling with dating. Just keep expanding your interests and learning new things because that’s truly what will build more connections.

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Anonymous 3w

“You were not chosen?” Get a grip,

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Anonymous 4w

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

at this point like 30% of the posts on here are questions dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

what is your definition of incel thinking and how does this meet it...? i don't see any entitlement or misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Moreso the defeatist attitude and linking it to forces outside of ones control. I agree theres no entitlement or misogyny but the other aspects are there

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

being sad in a way that doesn't impact or dehumanize anyone else???? omg what are you some kind of incel???

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’m not an incel nor blame others. I’ve loved and appreciated myself and that hasn’t really been a magic fix. If that logic was true there wouldn’t be the amount of insecure, manipulative, toxic people who are in long term relationships rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I don’t complain about it out loud to people it’s whatever but it’s litterally true I don’t what else to say. They’re free to do it but they did date someone else while we were talking and didn’t choose me

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