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My gf is worried that women will hit on me at the beach during spring break and I told her “I could try and I would still get none, you have nothing to worry about” and she got offended???
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Anonymous 4w

i think it’s the implication that what is stopping you is the fact that you aren’t attractive/don’t have game like that instead of you just only having eyes for her. the thing stopping you from thinking about/interacting with other women in that way should be your love for her and your loyalty, not your inability to pull women. obviously still something she needs to work on not being so sensitive too, but that’s probably why she’s upset.

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Anonymous 4w

I agree with #5, yeah she does sound kind of insecure but the right thing to say is “you can trust me, i only want you” not “well i could try to cheat on you but it wouldn’t work” that’s kind of a crazy thing to say lmao

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Anonymous 4w

Tell her she needs to trust you and what other women might do doesn’t matter

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Anonymous 4w

ew yall dont even like women or your gf

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Anonymous 4w

Someone is insecure

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Anonymous 4w

there should be more trust. with my bf i know he's attractive, thats partially why im dating him. so for me to think other girls arent gonna find him attractive too is unreasonable but its his responsibility to not act on it and tell them he has a girlfriend. when she comes to you with concerns just tell her you love her and even if you do get hit on that doesnt mean you'll reciprocate. you want her and a random girl on spring break isnt going to change that

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Anonymous 4w

Ummm anyways that’s a her problem not you she’s projecting ignore what 1 said

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

exactly. while she does have to work through the insecurity and trust you, the response given was like a “well i couldn’t even cheat if i tried” implying that if you could then she would have to worry about it. something that will help her work through the insecurity is being reassuring in a way that emphasizes that she doesn’t have to worry because you would never even consider another woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Looks is partly why you are dating someone is kids shallow tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i mean if i’m not attracted to my partner that’s kind of a problem 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

looks are the first thing you notice about a person. i'm dating him for a lot of reasons, his good looks are just a plus but they also caught my attention and is what made me interested in the first place. you missed the point of my comment

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