Ask Women on Sidechat | One time I was kissing a guy. His hands started wandering, and I made one little tiny noise to indicate I didn’t like it. He said “Oh sorry, you’re not comfortable with that?” and immediately stopped. Most attractive thing ever. The bar is in hell.

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One time I was kissing a guy. His hands started wandering, and I made one little tiny noise to indicate I didn’t like it. He said “Oh sorry, you’re not comfortable with that?” and immediately stopped. Most attractive thing ever. The bar is in hell.

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Anonymous 1d

Not a question. Also yay we love respecting consent

Anonymous 22h

YES if this happened to me I would be shocked and it would make the hookup x1000 times better

Anonymous 13h

The guy I’m currently with, when we first started seeing each other, i told him on our like third date I didn’t want to do anything after we had previously done some things. He literally didn’t even try, didn’t question, nothing. Also the most attractive thing ever.

Anonymous 12h

This is great, although I feel like it is also important if someone is uncomfortable with something to voice it, I understand making a noise is kinda just a reaction and it’s great the guy caught on, but not everyone might without being explicitly told something is not ok, ya know? And I feel like that is also a issue in todays world where as important as consent is, it must be communicated, and not just expected that without words it’ll be understood

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#7 1h

I see what you’re saying, but I cannot imagine doing anything differently from what this guy did. If I reverse the scenario in my head, I can’t see myself ever continuing on after seeing someone else’s discomfort. I know a select few people struggle with nonverbal communication, but the vast majority are 100% able to understand. If they play dumb about it, it’s because they don’t care.