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Ask Women 18w
Proposing tomorrow, pretty nervous, any advice?
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Anonymous 18w

Deep breaths and go with the flow. Sometimes things don’t go perfectly but it’ll all work out even if it isn’t the perfect proposal you had planned

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Anonymous 18w

Whatever you do just don’t it in a public spot like you see in movies

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Anonymous 18w

Make sure you got a sneaky lil photographer

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Anonymous 18w

Practice getting down on your knee!

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Anonymous 18w

Have fun while doing it ain’t no pressure if it’s something you really wanna do

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Anonymous 18w

Good luck, let things go naturally, it’s an emotional and nerve wracking moment so do feel bad if you get a bit nervous

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Anonymous 18w

Don’t stutter like a idiot

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Anonymous 18w

Probably get off this app too :) hope it goes well!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

I might rehearse a couple times in the mirror as silly as that sounds lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

What matters is that yall love each other and are ready to put in hard work. Marriage is honestly really hard. If you need any advice let me know:) I’ve been married for a year now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

Thank you! I’m definitely a planner, and we’ve thought this over for a long time now. I definitely want to, I’m just anxious. I know deep down that she’ll be happy no matter what happens, but it’s still kinda scary lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

I totally get that. I say that because my husband had this extravagant plan and when it came down to it he got so nervous he did it in the dark in his bedroom 😂. Sometimes things don’t go to plan but it’ll make for a good story

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18w

*don’t omg 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

Don’t do this

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

I genuinely don’t understand what’s wrong here…? Like that’s literally just as one kneels… 😒🙄🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 18w

The fact that it's a Gen Z ass proposal

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18w

Ohh since the first comment of #5 was about kneeling, I thought there was something wrong with the way he’s kneeling. Yeah… I agree then. A proposal should be… more!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Nah don’t rehearse it. Let all the words that want to come out come out. Even if it’s messy and even nonsensical, it’ll be more true to the moment

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