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Ask Women 1d
I want to ask how you get over men. Because as a man, getting over women feels impossible
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Anonymous 1d

There’s plenty of fish in the sea, in life you’re always going to lose or miss out on things but you just have to keep moving forward and use that freedom for different opportunities

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Anonymous 1d

It takes time but you realize that just because one person was good, doesn’t mean they were great.

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Anonymous 1d

i am bi. personally, the only man i've ever been in (unrequited) love with ended up being a terrible abusive person, so i'm over him romantically. the only woman i've been in love with was much much much harder to get over, she was magical.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah that’s absolutely fair. I think there’s only one fish that I’ve really wanted to catch, and since I’ve given up fishing they’re the only one I think about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Only one fish *so far*, you have many years ahead of you and it’s very likely you’ll meet other people who would be a good match for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

If you keep telling yourself that was the only option for you, and mentally closing yourself off from new opportunities, it’s going to be true

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

so yes it is hard to get over women

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