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My gf and I have a decent sex life for the most part, we have like piv sex 2-3x a week. But she doesn’t like giving bjs, since she said she doesn’t like the taste, even precum. And this changed a lot since the beginning where she would go down sometimes
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Anonymous 6w

If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. Do you go down on her out of curiosity? And you can collaborate with her about foreplay

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Anonymous 5w

Get flavored condoms. May be that will help 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous 6w

But now, it’s like rare. And I don’t think it’s that big of a deal and I think it’s a really shallow reason to break up over. But how can I make the foreplay experience better for both of us? I don’t like just going straight to business without any foreplay lol

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Anonymous 5w

Ur diet can affect the taste

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Anonymous 6w

Dang that’s rough. My girl enjoys it and swallows. 🙌🏼

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Anonymous 5w

Why down votes for get rid of her? They aren’t aligned the same

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Anonymous 5w

No it’s not. Why stay with a woman that does not enjoy oral? You will grow to hate her

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Anonymous 5w

Keep assuming and see how far it gets you. A woman that won’t look after her man will either be cheated on or simply have no man

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Anonymous 6w

I’m sorry… that’s sad

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Anonymous 6w

Get rid of her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

tell her what you like and vice versa

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Yeah I go down on, she doesn’t want that too most times lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

What’s a good foreplay other than oral? We just makeout only really

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Anything involving hands counts. Handjobs, fingering. You can even throw toys in the mix

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She has a vibrator we use sometimes, but what are some guy toys 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Because the wording makes it sound like your in a relationship for sex, what if he loved everything about her outside of it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Sex is very important in a relationship and life is to short

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yes but theres also more to relationships than sex. Honestly in this guys situation the issue isn't just bjs its the lack of general foreplay which can be fixed and talked about. Don't gotta give up on a relationship because of a bj

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Making out and dry humping is soooo hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

She obviously has no desire to do it. Send her up the road

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Who says she has no desire for foreplay, she just doesnt like bjs, theres different ways to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Not really. She either sucks dick or she don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

You're weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

How is telling the truth weird? It is what it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Because thats just an opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

A weird one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Are you a man or a woman? lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What does it matter? If two people aren’t on the same page they just aren’t on the same page. Easy as that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

If I wanted an opinion from a man I would’ve asked this in ask men lol. You sound like another guy who thinks there’s nothing more to a relationship let alone sex than oral sex. And can tell you haven’t been in love when your first response is to leave for not giving a bj… there’s so much more to my relationship

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