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Ask Women 18h
I have a friend of 16 yrs. I’ve been w my bf for almost 3 yrs & she refuses to meet him. I would vent to her in the beginning of our relationship ab our issues & she ended up telling her own bf ab it & they both agreed they never want to meet him. 1/2
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Anonymous 18h

The things I vented to her about weren’t that bad. She would vent about her relationship too but I never told my bf & didn’t swear off seeing her bf even tho I don’t think he’s that nice. Even prior to this knowing nothing about him she was not happy at all when I got into a relationship even though she’s been in a long term relationship herself. I also found out she was talking about my bf being ugly w our mutual friend. Any advice? I’m fed up with her behaviour

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Anonymous 17h

Talking shit? Not a girls girl. Shes not supporting you mami, maybe have a conversation where if she doesn’t start saying she’ll support YOU, gotta cut her off

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Anonymous 17h

Sounds like a shit friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Maybe not cut her off, but fs back away from that relationship if you’re not satisfied with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Can’t lie she hasn’t been the greatest friend. She can be very self absorbed & has admitted to being jealous of me. I’ve just started distancing myself she’s too confusing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Very true. I just don’t understand where all this hostility is coming from on her end.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Doesn’t sound like she’d be willing to listen, accept her problems, and change yet

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