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I’m going to a (gay) club for the first time. wtf do I wear? I’m lesbian and we’re seeing a drag show. Is this a going out top miniskirt moment? Dress? Are jeans appropriate? Help
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Anonymous 3w

literally whatever you're comfortable in. ig try to look good (if you want to) but you're not gonna be breaking a dress code or anything

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Anonymous 3w

Thankfully queer spaces are pretty fluid with things like dress code. Wear what makes you feel confident, sexy, and you. You’ll probably see everything from formal gowns (mostly the queens but everyone shows up as themselves) to street clothes if it’s a larger club. Above all if you own it they’ll love you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

My main concern is looking too casual or too dress up I guess 😭 I don’t want to stick out too badly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Girl i go in jeans and a wifebeater w leather accents but then again im butch

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