Ask Women on Sidechat | Genuine question: are women seeing this behavior as well? Especially when your barely friends with a girl and she gets PISSED that you won’t treat every issue she has as an emergency? And/or do you find boundary setting with other women to be hard?

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Genuine question: are women seeing this behavior as well? Especially when your barely friends with a girl and she gets PISSED that you won’t treat every issue she has as an emergency? And/or do you find boundary setting with other women to be hard?

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Anonymous 15h

i have literally never encountered this in my life so i wonder if this is something abt the kind of online content these ppl consume and/or ur region etc

Anonymous 1d

And if your seeing it, how can we approach the issue of boundaries with women in ways that helps them to realize that sometimes they ask for things that are unrealistic or they should be asking their day ones, not someone they met a week ago.

Anonymous 19h

I don’t have this issue but also I’m fairly quiet and straightforward and also look gay as fuck, so it could just be that this genre of woman doesn’t gravitate to me. Idk. I think the only women who would be getting more entitles are the chronically online ones who consume relationship content like they’re snorting a line

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#2 15h

I think it’s more common in male/female dynamics however I’ve seen this happen between women too. Definitely could be a region thing however. I’m from the NE

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OP 15h

okay now THATS interesting bc i’m from there too. ig it’s just a combination of these women being on very particular areas of the internet like #1 said and these particular women being kind of petty. sometimes i wonder if women are just more willing to do and ask for favors for their friends than men are bc of how we’re socialized differently but the woman ur talking abt was def being immature

Anonymous

#2 14h

I’m really hoping it’s just my school/area because the way women (and men to a degree) act just piss me off. I don’t even know who I can be friends with anymore. The women act entitled and hate taking responsibility for anything and the men have such rigid egocentric personalities and are often creeps… I don’t know anymore.

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OP 13h

yeah that’s really frustrating:/ may i ask which specific state ur in? purely out of curiosity no worries if not

Anonymous

#2 12h

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OP 12h

hm lowk makes sense, especially if upstate imo. i’m from MA for reference if it matters lol

Anonymous

#2 11h

You’d say upstate is particularly bad? I wouldn’t think ma (esp Boston) has this problem as much since I’m around there a lot

Anonymous

OP 11h

just a guess bc upstate has wealthier ppl so maybe more of the ppl there are entitled? and yeah i’ve never experienced that specific issue, tho i’ve def encountered plenty of creepy men in my time (as all women have). interesting tho