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Hi so I posted this on a different group but should I even go anymore? Full context in the description please read!
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10 comments. Sidechat poll by Anonymous in Ask Women. "Hi so I posted this on a different group but should I even go anymore? Full context in the description please read!"
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Anonymous 3d

So he wants to meet me on our college campus but I have to pay per hour for parking and I don't want to go there just to hang while I have to continue to pay to park. I only pay to park when I have class and I think its kinda silly to do so when I don't really know him well enough for it to be worth it.

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Anonymous 3d

"I don't feel up to going anymore", communicate

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Anonymous 2d

You don’t want to pay for parking but want him to pay for a date

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Also by the way he made it sound before he had a whole date planned out. It's on me for thinking we would drive to meet some place and I should have confirmed beforehand. However I also think its weird that today he tells me he lost his card and now the place he planned turned into lets meet on campus and we "go from there". I don't want our date to be in our student center and I don't mind meeting at the restaurant or being picked up...I don't feel up to going anymore either, what do I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Yes that, and im sorry for being confusing but I kinda feel like im not giving him a chance? But I also dont want to be played..idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Trust me I already communicated plenty before this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

You don't feel up to going, you don't go, easy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Yeah I got confirmation. Thanks I guess...

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I was actually expecting that we split. I don't want to leave my car on campus where we pay by the hour for god knows how many hours especially when it's not to benefit me and my education. That's idiotic.

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