Ask Women on Sidechat | I just walked in on my boyfriend and friend kissing. All I saw when I opened the door was him pushing her off, and I honestly couldn’t tell if I came in RIGHT when the kiss happened or if he pushed her off bc heard the door.

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Ask Women 5w

I just walked in on my boyfriend and friend kissing. All I saw when I opened the door was him pushing her off, and I honestly couldn’t tell if I came in RIGHT when the kiss happened or if he pushed her off bc heard the door.

Anonymous 5w

Believe neither of them and cut both of them off. Still a conscious act that they’re both regretting. Whether he pushed her off at the start he still initiated it back to her and got caught. And it’s still cheating

Anonymous 5w

Reading the whole story tells me that it’s sketchy, I would just distance yourself. There’s no context where it makes sense for your bf to end up in a nearly closed closet with another woman

Anonymous 5w

I blew up in their faces screaming and made a whole commotion, essentially ruining the night. she texted me later and said that she was sorry but that they mutually kissed but he’s telling me that I came in right when I pushed her off and that he wouldn’t ever do that to me. I don’t know who to believe and i’m genuinely so distraught, how should I handle this?? We were all drunk so trying to replay it in my mind is just making me more confused

Anonymous 5w

Op please don't be a fool. What situation would they be in to be alone together in an enclosed space close enough to be kissing and there's alcohol involved...good on your friend for at least being honest as shitty as they are

Anonymous 5w

Oh it’s tea time yall

Anonymous 4w

I’m a guy, but is he claiming it was non-consensual on his part?

Anonymous 5w

Join in! Make it a threesome!

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Anonymous

#2 5w

Yeah, regardless of what actually went down they both decided to go into that room together with the door closed. There’s hardly any other reason for that than to hide what you’re doing

Anonymous

#3 5w

I guess I should explain the door thing since it’s pretty vague. Basically it was a walk in closet situation and the door was cracked open. The only thing that lined up with both there stories was that they went to grab more alcohol. A lot of our friends are split 50/50 about the situation, which is what makes this so hard

Anonymous

OP 5w

I can see you’re trying to give them the benefit of the doubt but I just think it’s very convenient they both decided grabbing some drinks in a small, private space was a 2 person job

Anonymous

OP 5w

They don’t need to grab alcohol together…and the closet makes it worse. They knew what they were doing

Anonymous

OP 5w

believe neither, they both did you dirty regardless i say cut them both off and move on with ur life

Anonymous

#5 5w

I’d rather shit in my hands and clap.

Anonymous

#5 5w

Get out of here

Anonymous

#7 5w

Lose the both of them and take care of yourself because they aren't worth it

Anonymous

OP 5w

if you don’t cut both of them off girl-

Anonymous

#2 5w

No. I was trying to help and suggest that

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Anonymous

#5 5w

Porn has li killed your mind

Anonymous

#8 5w

So you think i should start reading porn

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Anonymous

#10 4w

Yeah, what he told me was that our friends asked for someone to get more drinks out of the closet thing for mixtures and he said yes. he said that he was going on his own but she offered to help and he didn’t fight it, then when he was talking she turned his face and kissed him and that he pulls away immediately but that’s when I saw. His back was facing me so honestly I couldn’t tell if it was reciprocated or not

Anonymous

OP 4w

It’s maybe worth giving him the benefit of the doubt if this is the first time anything like this has happened then.