imagine this. you meet the perfect guy, no red flags, and then he tells you he talked to a 17 year old when he was 23 and waited until she was 18 to date and “do anything”. how should i feel about this????
I would immediately lose all feelings for him and be disgusted by him and there is no good quality or level of attractiveness that could make up for that. That man is a loser and a weirdo and there is no other way to look at it