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How do I better understand my gf when I can do 1000 things right in a day and 1 thing wrong ruins her whole day and she’s upset at me
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Anonymous 7w

I don’t know how you’re doing 1000 things in a day

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Anonymous 7w

I mean does she communicate on what it is that you’re doing wrong? If so, don’t do that. If not, ask her what it is and then don’t do it

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Anonymous 7w

Like it’s not enough to do “everything else right” The default state is doing things right. The problem is wrong thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

It’s all about perspective also like you could be doing default things fine and right but if you’re doing something wrong everyday that still sounds like a problem, but also we have no idea what you’re talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

She does and I try my hardest to remember but sometimes they just slip my mind and I don’t notice and by then it’s too late

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Ur right I lwk never thought abt it being like im doing default things right which is normal but then i keep messing up daily and that isnt okay its bad idk why i do it tho it never intended its always accidentally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Idk how I never viewed it this way maybe self bias but I appreciate it a lot

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