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I’ve been on multiple dates where at the end the girl said something like “So is this a date? Or are we just hanging out as friends?” Like idk what I’m doing wrong I thought by asking them to go on dates it was clear 😭
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Anonymous 2d

a lot of ppl are kind of wishy-washy in this dating scene. so maybe the girls are just making sure they are 100% on what is going on and what intentions are before they set any expectations for the future. sometimes i’ve even been on dates but the other person decides they want a friendship more than a romantic relationship so it could be a way of checking in to make sure you’re both still on the same page after the date?

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Anonymous 2d

do you use the word date when you ask them out

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2d

But like why else would I ask them to go out for drinks or dinner one on one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

u can go get drinks or dinner with friends. just use the word date and that will clear it up

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