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My platonic girl friend keeps trying to set me up with her friend but I can’t tell if she’s actually into me or not so idk how to go about it
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Anonymous 1d

She’s not or she wouldn’t be trying to set you up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Wait so she’s not into me?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

no dude…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

That’s what I thought but my friend keeps trying to set us up so that’s what’s confusing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Why would she set you up with somebody else if she was?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

No I’m talking about my platonic girl friend friend not my friend lol she’s like a sister to me ew

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oh i got it now, you don’t know if the friend she has is into you or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yea lol she invited us to all her events about we flirt a bit but I can’t tell if that’s just her personality or not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

so question, is your friend trying to set you up with her just by being in the same room as her? Or is she setting you up by talking to her about you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

They’ve been friends since they were kids so I doubt that me and her friend have the same personality and we get along really well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

that’s not what I’m asking, I’m saying is your friend talking to her friend about you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

She’s told me they have had convos about me but she hasn’t told me much after that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

what your friend is trying to do is incept the idea of you to her which pretty much gives you about 15% of the girls interest because since they have been friends for so long then they trust each other and their opinions so the girl will trust her friend about your intentions but now the girl is just trying to fill you out if you’re actually a good fit for her, 15% is better than 0%

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Oh this has been happening for a while and she comments on my stories often but idk if it’s friendly or flirting it’s hard to tell with her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

do you talk to her like a friend? or do you talk to her like more? If you talk to her like more than a friend then she’s literally just trying to feel you out, but if you talk to her like you talk to your other friend then you’re digging yourself a hole

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Idk I think I have a hard time figuring out the difference 😭 I think idk how to flirt but ik when someone is flirting with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

well, does she flirt with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

She definitely flirts with me and several friends have commented on our interactions at parties 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

then I think you’re just overthinking it, if other people are commenting on it then you’re not misreading it

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