Ask Women on Sidechat | i have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years and we are happier than ever. we communicate effectively and have a lot of fun in bed too. my issue is that it’s so hard for me to initiate sex! why? he still makes me nervous after 3 years! what do i do?

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i have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years and we are happier than ever. we communicate effectively and have a lot of fun in bed too. my issue is that it’s so hard for me to initiate sex! why? he still makes me nervous after 3 years! what do i do?

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Anonymous 2w

Good to hear y’all are happy, I’m sure you could get over it through maybe talking to him about it?

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Anonymous 2w

Get married

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Anonymous 2w

Like good butterflies nervous or scared nervous?

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Anonymous

#3 2w

butterflies always

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Anonymous

#1 2w

we were giggling about it the other day actually in the moment but it didn’t help my issue

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OP 2w

I was actually the exact same way. It’s was a little embarrassing for me and my main issue was it felt like my words would get stuck in my throat but I started having to do it written. Then I was able to do it as long as I didn’t look him directly in the face. Now I can do it regularly so sometimes baby steps.

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