Thank you!!😊😊

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Anonymous #4 7w

It’s not really a choice I have

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Anonymous OP 7w

I have what’s referred to as gender dysphoria so trying to play a character causes me immense mental and physical pain, sort of like you were forced to pretend to be a gender you were not your mind would tell you it feels wrong correct? Well it’s the same for me, but also it doesn’t really effect you in any way, I’m not an athlete or anything like that just a filmmaker trying to exist, simply a person the same as you

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Anonymous OP 7w

But I’m also not trying to steal anything from anyone I simply exist as I am, you don’t have to agree with me,a lot of people in my family don’t but do I hate them no I don’t I see them as people,again you don’t have to use my name or pronouns or anything as long as you respect me existing and just let me live my life then we’ll be fine and as a person I respect who you are what I don’t respect is berating someone else in the comments, would you feel happy if I did that to you no you wouldn’t

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Anonymous OP 7w

The only way we heal this country we live in is with kindness

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Anonymous OP 7w

Gender dysphoria is a mental illness that can be treated. You seem like a fine person that’s confused so I’ll tell you to just stay the same gender and eventually everything will work out fine for you. But I’m sorry, feeding into crazy delusions like this allows for crazy people to go into women’s bathrooms freely and allows for women to easily be sexually assaulted.

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Anonymous OP 7w

What would you say if a white person said they identified as black

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Anonymous OP 7w

If I was acting r-tarded then I would see where they’re coming from

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Anonymous #4 7w

I would never harm anyone, but as for your opinion on dysphoria being an illness your allowed to have that opinion I just simply ask you don’t go into posts trying to be insulting and hurtful

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Anonymous OP 7w

Would you not agree mocking people is wrong? It serves no other purpose then to cause fights

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m just trying to help you out. I think it is unfortunate that you have this metal illness but don’t make a terrible mistake

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Anonymous OP 7w

But also it’s stuff like saying your not normal that can lead to hate speech and lead to violence, now I assume you wouldn’t consider yourself a violent person but there are legitimately people out there who want me dead for simply existing, for not being normal

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Anonymous OP 7w

And if you claim it’s a mental illness like you said would you go to anyone else with a mental illness and mock them? I severely doubt you would, which is why your comments felt just like bullying for no reason, and I would never ask that it happen to you, I don’t think you deserve to be harassed or mocked so please don’t do it to me

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It’s biological xx and xy chromosomes that you can’t change. And define what it means to be a woman or be a man in your opinion. Try to elaborate

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Anonymous OP 7w

That’s a very good point, I would never do that. But I would also never feed into their delusions. I wouldn’t tell a depressed person to kill themselves I would try to help them out, just like what I’m trying to do with you

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Anonymous #4 7w

But also would you say that to someone else with a mental illness or would you mock them? Because if you believe that I have one then you are simply trying to insult someone who has a mental illness for simply having it which would make what your doing just being mean for no reason

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What is a women

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Anonymous #4 7w

The thing I’m trying to say is cruelty does nothing but make anything worse, leading like that does nothing but make me feel like your trying to harass me which happens daily, if you lead with what you said I don’t think your trying to help, just please try to be kinder so at most I disagree and it doesn’t sound like you want to cause me harm

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Anonymous OP 7w

You’re right, I shouldn’t have lead with that. I just fundamentally don’t agree with people who blindly support all the ideas of people who think they are the wrong gender

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Saying “transition is THE answer agreed upon by scientists” isn’t accurate. The consensus is that gender-affirming care can be an effective treatment for many people with gender dysphoria after careful clinical evaluation, not that every person should transition or that transition universally resolves mental health issues. The research generally shows benefits for many patients, but the evidence is more mixed and individualized than you’re claiming.

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You’re overstating the evidence. Many people benefit from transitioning, but the research does not show it’s the best solution for every individual. The evidence has limitations, and treatment should be based on each person’s situation, not a one-size-fits-all approach.

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But, I don't think transitioning is the right solution. Altering a healthy body to treat psychological distress is something that should be approached with extreme caution, especially since not everyone benefits and some people later regret it. Saying it's the answer for everyone ignores those realities.

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Anonymous #4 7w

It’s definitely not a one size fits all thing your right there, but i assure you my doctors and therapists I’ve been talking about this too for years concluded it would be effective and help with a lot of stuff:) this isn’t just a decision I’m jumping too I promise I’ve taken a lot of time and research into it, and if it ever feels bad I’ll stop

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Anonymous OP 7w

Then why are you asking yik yak what to do? You literally said “I have no idea what to do.” So either you are lying or just trying to get attention

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Anonymous #4 7w

No no I meant that like I’ve thought about it before and talked about it but like when I posted it I was going through a crisis :) so it was a lot more exaggerated I meant like I tried to suppress this idk what to do

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Anonymous #4 7w

It’s not the choice for everyone there’s some people who choose not too but it’s probably going to be beneficial for me:) plus it’s not surgery yet so if I regret it I can always just stop and I’m starting with simply my name

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I’d like to point out that YOU don’t know op, YOU aren’t a medical professional, YOU aren’t a psychologist. The only reason you think I don’t add any value to this post is because I don’t follow what yall believe

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ok well as long as you’re not doing the surgery that’s better. But also, not just be a very feminine dude or a very masculine girl? What part of being a woman or being a man do you want to attain?

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Anonymous #4 7w

I want to be acknowledged as who I am when my body looks like a man they will not treat me with respect or purposely misgender me, my goal is to be able to live and exist as me

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I’m trying to go to medical school and I’m currently an EMT. I support science. I have grown up with many trans people in my life. My value isn’t shaped by ignorance as I have done a lot of research on the subject, it’s shaped as a matter of fact.

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m very sorry to say this, but your body won’t look like a man.

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I only look at scientific journals and peer reviewed papers buddy. I don’t just scroll reels like you to get my information

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Anonymous #4 6w

Girlypop I think you have some issues with yourself you need to figure out. If the idea of trans people existing bothers you so much, have you ever stopped to ask yourself why? Maybe you can’t accept that gender is changeable because that would mean you don’t know what gender you would be and don’t wanna figure it out right now?

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