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From one chronically single girl to others who are in the same boat, why do you think you are single?
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Anonymous 1d

I genuinely do not talk to men, I don’t really go out and I fear it’s hard to meet guys w/o that especially in a women dominate major

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Anonymous 1d

Self sabotage for sure. Like generally I haven’t been meeting anyone I’m attracted to, but the few times I have a chance at something I’d be happy with, I get anxious and drop it

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Anonymous 1d

bc men disappoint me and i haven’t been proven wrong abt that. and it’s honestly not that i don’t pull or have low confidence. like ik i’m objectively attractive but like it just seems that every guy that approaches me is a creep/asshole/liar/sexist/manipulator/man

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Anonymous 1d

I think it’s cause I’m not their type.

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Anonymous 1d

i’m mean to men. even if they’re my boyfriend 😔

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Anonymous 1d

Every time I go out on a date they just end up wanting sex

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Anonymous 1d

probably because I'm reserved and mean lol

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Anonymous 1d

1. Not skinny 2. Super shy 3. Idk how to talk

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Anonymous 1d

I’m aroace with zero interest in a partner of any kind, so I guess just by choice then. Also men are just …eh.

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t have men in my circle. All my married friends husbands don’t have single friends. So there is no way to meet vetted normal guys.

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Anonymous 1d

im somewhat reserved, and i’m not that attractive. trying to lose a few pounds this summer to see if that helps anything lol

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Anonymous 1d

Because every time i like someone, i actually show it and then i dont get that same effort they said they would give 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think once my life gets more stable and I can lose some weight, maybe it’ll help me feel more comfortable with that sort of thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Coming from a guy, the decent ones of us don’t approach

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Yeah we’re too scared to. I’m 22 and have only done it 3 times.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

ykw thas valid i think its a two way thing basically leading to no interaction at all 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

i also am not great at putting effort into my appearance on the day to day, i hardly ever wear makeup

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