I genuinely do not talk to men, I don’t really go out and I fear it’s hard to meet guys w/o that especially in a women dominate major
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Anonymous1d
Self sabotage for sure. Like generally I haven’t been meeting anyone I’m attracted to, but the few times I have a chance at something I’d be happy with, I get anxious and drop it
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Anonymous1d
bc men disappoint me and i haven’t been proven wrong abt that. and it’s honestly not that i don’t pull or have low confidence. like ik i’m objectively attractive but like it just seems that every guy that approaches me is a creep/asshole/liar/sexist/manipulator/man
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Anonymous1d
I think it’s cause I’m not their type.
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Anonymous1d
i’m mean to men. even if they’re my boyfriend 😔
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Anonymous1d
Every time I go out on a date they just end up wanting sex
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Anonymous1d
probably because I'm reserved and mean lol
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Anonymous1d
1. Not skinny
2. Super shy
3. Idk how to talk
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Anonymous1d
I’m aroace with zero interest in a partner of any kind, so I guess just by choice then. Also men are just …eh.
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Anonymous1d
I don’t have men in my circle. All my married friends husbands don’t have single friends. So there is no way to meet vetted normal guys.
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Anonymous1d
im somewhat reserved, and i’m not that attractive. trying to lose a few pounds this summer to see if that helps anything lol
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Anonymous1d
Because every time i like someone, i actually show it and then i dont get that same effort they said they would give 🫡
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Anonymous#11d
I think once my life gets more stable and I can lose some weight, maybe it’ll help me feel more comfortable with that sort of thing
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Anonymous#31d
Coming from a guy, the decent ones of us don’t approach
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Anonymous#51d
Yeah we’re too scared to. I’m 22 and have only done it 3 times.
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Anonymous#51d
ykw thas valid i think its a two way thing basically leading to no interaction at all 😭
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Anonymous#91d
i also am not great at putting effort into my appearance on the day to day, i hardly ever wear makeup