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I just started dating a girl and we both are super insecure, we both are convinced that we aren’t in the same league.
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Anonymous 2w

what’s the question

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Anonymous 2w

Therapy? Outside perspective on your relationship can help you both see yourselves how you are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

How do I fix this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

stop overthinking it, if u both like each other that’s all that matters. everyone’s insecure but u only let it control the relationship if u keep putting emphasis on it and focusing on it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Also, be ok with dating someone “more attractive” than you. That way even if you feel insecure, you don’t feel as much like there’s a problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Make honest observations about the other person. My bf knows I mean my compliments because they are mostly just observations

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