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Is there a way to ask out a friend without making the friendship weird if she says no?
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Anonymous 4w

not really. just one of those situations where you have to risk something to gain something

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Anonymous 4w

“I was hesitant to say anything because I don’t want to make things weird between us… But it’s gotten to the point where I also feel weird by not at least putting it out there to see if you feel the same”

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Anonymous 4w

Just don’t make it weird?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Like how?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

What do you mean how

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Just don’t make it weird. Idk you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I can come up with a few things to ask indirectly but that’s from my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’d take that advice, I just meant like is there a way to go about it where I don’t make it uncomfortable. I’m still new to dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So you’re dating? I’m confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

No, like I’m new to asking girls out and trying to date

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then ask. If she said no. Oh well🤷‍♂️.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Okay fine. Just 1 big tip. It depends on how you take the answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

least helpful person on the planet

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I think “depends on how you take the answer” is too complicated for you to understand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

he had to ask you like 5 times to get even that out of u

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

How are men supposed to grow as an individual if we are given answers? No one taught me 🤷‍♂️. Sometimes we just have to learn the hard way

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Sorry i’m a guy btw, I was mindlessly scrolling before lab responding to posts. I said something along those lines to my now gf and we’ve been going strong for 1.5 years now! Being candid about feelings can be more effective than you think. Even if not mutual that clarity means less time envisioning/obsessing over hypotheticals.

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