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I got rejected and she told her friends it was bc I haven’t had a gf in 7 years and that’s a red flag 😭 how can I prevent this from happening in the future can I just lie and say I’ve had more gfs
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Anonymous 1d

Weirdass reasoning imo, but it’s her choice and that’s fine, yk? One encounter doesn’t mean everyone is gonna be like that.

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Anonymous 1d

Bullet dodged

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Anonymous 1d

Just lie and say you dated some girl studying abroad there is no way for her to verify this I’ve done it a couple times and now I don’t even need that story

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s dumb asf don’t do that lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I did it after being told not to on here and went from no dating success to actually being able to date it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Explain to me how this works in the long term tho. I assume you are dating to marry. So what happens where there are no pictures of this ex girlfriend? When she asks your mom about the ex girlfriend ? Asks your friends about her? Stalks you on social media looking for her? Women aren’t dumb lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

1. Most people aren’t dating to marry at 19 2. I was never asked for pictures of her and I already had a plan for that anyways 3. She was already told in advance what to say 4. The friends that she’d meet locally came after so they wouldn’t know anyways 5. I don’t use social media

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It’s disrespectful to lie and it will sabotage trust in the long term, but for if you’re looking for something casual, that would probably work. Still, I think any girl would feel off-put or even hurt by that kind of dishonesty when bonding with a lover.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I tried to be honest but continually was getting rejected solely for not having dating experience. So I lied and now I’m free to go forward without lying. The alternative is to be honest and keep failing indefinitely

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

A lose-lose, huh. That’s rough. I still wouldn’t recommend it to OP, but I can see why you’d do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Nah there’s no loss I just had to do it once and now I’m at an even playing field. Dated a few months and I ended up moving relationship ended on normal terms.

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