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littlepenis4.8

 What’s so wrong with being nonchalant? To me nonchalant has always been a guy who is calm and chill and easygoing. That doesn’t mean he’s not passionate or spontaneous. Does it mean something else these days? I’m genuinely curious
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Anonymous 4w

Keep in mind all the women who complain about nonchalant men have been attracted to and have dated, fucked, ect with them so much to go on to later change their mind. It’s almost like that strategy works and you shouldn’t give af what they say online 💀

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Anonymous 4w

A lot of the time it’s used to say they don’t really care. They don’t mind if you don’t talk, they don’t want to do anything serious and they don’t act like they care about you. And I think that’s just stupid. Don’t be in a relationship if you are the way men usually self describe as nonchalant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I was just curious honestly. I’m certainly not going to change my entire personality and demeanor just because the online discourse is toxic. I just wanted to ask a genuine question and have some discussions. I like hearing women’s points and outlooks.

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.8 4w

If you like hearing women’s outlooks #2 sounds like a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I agree but I’ve had a great convo with Wing Leader

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

I personally I have a very different definition for nonchalant but I understand what you’re saying. People just manipulating relationships for the fun of it are sickening

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.8 4w

Oh I’m not saying that’s how I see it. That’s just the way I’ve seen it described recently. I personally see it as someone who’s a bit distant in a relationship, rather than being forward or fully expressing what they want.

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