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How do I deal with my bf never communicating with me in times of need. I want him to understand the importance of communication without having to teach it to him. It is not my responsibility to teach a man how to properly communicate and commit and be
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Anonymous 17h

your only options are to tell him straight what you expect of him, deal with him as he is or leave. we’d all love men to be perfect mind readers who know exactly what to do but unfortunately that’s not always realistic.

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Anonymous 17h

Have a convo with him, tell him you think he’s falling short on communication and if he doesn’t improve after hearing you out, he might not be the kind of partner you need

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Anonymous 15h

I dealt with this so many times that it’s one of the best things women needs to learn! Bc once you keep going through guys that are not for you, at the end of the day you realize your standards, worth and eyes to see who is the real man. I recommend telling him straight up and communicating and if he cannot do it then please just leave and know you are still yourself at the end of the day. Failing in relationships or situationships leads you to a place where you only attract real man!

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Anonymous 12h

I agree with the comments made here that you have to communicate your needs. He can’t read your mind. But I also understand wanting a man who naturally takes initiative, communicates, and knows how to lead in a relationship without needing to be coached through every basic aspect of partnership. There’s a difference between communicating your specific needs and teaching someone how to be a partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I agree with this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

You’re right

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