Anonymous #1 1w

Same but it’s a comforting thought that another baddie will humble him TF DOWN. I’m 3 months post breakup and the thought of him approaching a pretty girl thinking he can get her number brings me so much joy. He’s so fugly I can’t believe I was desperate for THAT

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Anonymous OP 1w

Bitch he got your number. What makes you think another “baddie” will be different?

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Anonymous #2 1w

There are women out there who actually have self respect and standards..I was in a bad place in my life clearly but you just wanted to be cunt in your response.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You were shit talking ugly men in your original post I’m just giving the same energy

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Anonymous #2 1w

Missed my point but maybe I hit a nerve and you sound like you’re projecting

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Anonymous #2 1w

Where is the shit talk of ugly men? Sounds like projection

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Anonymous #3 1w

Don’t be obtuse. That dumb Billie Eilish quote is an attack on ugly men. Do attractive guys not think they rule the world when you give them a chance?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Again you missed the point. It is not an attack on ugly men. It’s shade towards ugly men who are given a chance by conventionally attractive women (who aren’t shallow enough to just go for looks) and proceed to STILL cheat. It’s the entitlement thinking they “can always do better” when in reality they can’t.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Cry about it

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Anonymous #4 1w

Same. Knowing it doesn’t matter if they’re ugly or not, men in general can always do you dirty. Might as well pick the cute ones.

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Anonymous OP 1w

No, I’d rather not also since it won’t let me reply to it directly your follow up to no. 4 is a horrible way to go about life and is just the same way thinking of the men you don’t like

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Anonymous #5 1w

How is that so horrible ? Please do tell

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Anonymous OP 1w

What difference does that make? The only point you’re making is that it hits a nerve more when an ugly person cheats on you than when an attractive one does. Which is stupid someone’s attractiveness level shouldn’t determine that. You’re implying that an attractive person cheating on you isn’t as bad

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Anonymous OP 1w

Thinking the opposite sex will only do you dirty and so you might as well go for the cute ones sounds kind of like that you’re just using them for their bodies. I don’t think it would be right for a man to say women in general can always do you dirty so might as well go for the hot ones

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Anonymous #5 1w

That’s exactly what men do though… so it’s fine if a man does it but I can’t

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Anonymous OP 1w

When did I say it’s fine when men do it? I literally just said that I don’t think it’d be right for a man to also I don’t like the men that do that

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s exactly what I’m implying. You don’t live in reality if you think otherwise. Men are shallow creatures, I’m just leveling the playing field

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Anonymous OP 1w

And women aren’t shallow creatures? You don’t live in reality if you think they aren’t. You aren’t leveling any playing field, you’re only growing it which fosters the same type of men you complain about.

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Anonymous OP 1w

“There are bad people in the world so I’m gonna be bad too and add to the grime”

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Anonymous OP 1w

Some men do that. Some men don’t. Some women do that. Some women don’t. Choosing to do that because other people do that is pathetic. Grow up.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Why is this still getting replies by obtuse ppl? She said when you give ppl you aren’t attracted to an ego boost it gets to their head thinking they rule the world. No one needs to be that cocky especially if you don’t take care of yourself. Bffr and stfu. You’re more worried that ppl find you ugly than the root problem

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Anonymous #3 1w

Sounds like OP hit a nerve

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Anonymous #3 1w

I’m not worried that people find me ugly. It’s the attitude towards ugly people I have a problem with as if they’re worse than attractive people. The root problem is cheating, not someone being ugly.

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Anonymous #2 1w

This literally has nothing to do with cheating what are you even talking about? Anyone can be cheated on and attractive ppl are treated poorly by either other jealous attractive ppl or envious unattractive ppl. What’s your point

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Anonymous #3 1w

But if men can not give chances to women they don’t find attractive women can do the exact same thing and this shouldn’t be an issue to ppl

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Anonymous #2 1w

I don’t have a problem with ugly people. I specifically was talking about ugly men who aren’t self aware

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Anonymous #2 1w

I don’t understand why you feel like you have to be the spokesperson for the ugly men community. I promise you they don’t need defending beloved

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Anonymous #5 1w

How is having a preference being a bad person…sorry I don’t want to date a gremlin

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Anonymous #3 1w

No one said that, also OP as already shown that they think men are lower than them as other living beings so…

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Anonymous OP 1w

“Men are shallow creatures” followed by “I’m just leveling the playing field” really implies that you don’t see men as equals and are gonna stoop to being shallow as well just cause others are, no one said having preferences makes you a bad person. Please use some reading comprehension skills

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Anonymous #3 1w

OP literally said “It’s shade towards ugly men who are given a chance by conventionally attractive women (who aren’t shallow enough to just go for looks) and proceed to STILL cheat” but sure it has nothing to do with cheating.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Wow how you managed to deduce that from what I said is amazing. 0 critical thinking skills babe

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Anonymous #2 1w

That was me giving you the context on the Billie eilish quote but sure twist it

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Anonymous #7 1w

Yep 😌

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Anonymous OP 1w

How are ugly men who aren’t self aware any different from attractive men who aren’t self aware

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Anonymous #7 1w

As we should hoe 😌

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Anonymous #4 1w

😝I have them mad but idc

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Anonymous OP 1w

You’re generalizing men and calling them shallow creatures, that’s dehumanizing language and you know it

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Anonymous OP 1w

No one ever said you had to date someone you weren’t attracted to. You and #4 are both completely missing the point 🤦🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous #5 1w

OP never said she was attractive either you’re nitpicking. Just incels complaining that women don’t wanna date them as if they’re OBLIGATED to

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Anonymous #3 1w

If women don’t wanna date a man SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO. That’s not YOUR problem?? Why are you that upset that women aren’t giving men that don’t deserve it an ego boost. Men already have the the audacity to harass attractive women that the girl doesn’t find attractive

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Anonymous #3 1w

You’re genuinely stupid. You and 2

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Anonymous #3 1w

I never said she said that either? This is like talking to a brick wall. No one is complaining that women don’t want to date them or saying that you’re obligated to date anyone.

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Anonymous #2 1w

So why are you complaining

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Anonymous #3 1w

Bc there’s nothing to be complaining about here unless you’re being dense to the par orally

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Anonymous #3 1w

Post itself*

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Anonymous #5 1w

Where did they say they are shallow creatures? You’re not better than all mighty bc a girl suddenly gave you a chance and she’s attractive. I’m convinced it’s just incels on this page whining that women aren’t giving unattractive men the time of day. As women should bc women should want to give the ppl they like a chance. Just as much as men do. Good for you OP

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Anonymous #3 1w

When did I complain about women not wanting to date certain men? When did I say a women should date men they aren’t attracted to? Stop playing the victim. Most I said is that it would be wrong for a man to have the mindset of all women are gonna do me dirty so at least get a hot one just like how OP said “men will always do you dirty so get a cute one” and how if this post had been said about women instead of men it would get a lot more hate.

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Anonymous #5 1w

No where did I ever say women need to or have to date men they aren’t attracted to

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Anonymous #5 1w

So now you’re just acting dense

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Anonymous #8 1w

They end up thinking they’re worth more than you and ruin your sanity / inner peace

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Anonymous #3 1w

Show me where I said women have to date ugly men dumbass also here it is. And you said I was the dense one

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Anonymous #5 1w

most ppl don’t have the mindset of all ppl in general and neither did OP. A lot of men do have the audacity and that’s literally nothing to be complaining about unless she hit a nerve. You’re just mad that OP would rather just be cheated on by a guy she’s attracted to than a guy that wasn’t. Bc the only thing that may be mean and offensive to your small brain is the cute part. Bc men do the EXACT same thing. And have done the same thing for YEARS. And you don’t see us saying shit about it

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Anonymous #3 1w

Men do it AS WE SPEAK in this forum and other forums when they complain about hating their gf for stupid reasons

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yes they are shallow creatures. A lot of ppl are. If you took offense then clearly you’re one of them. Men care more abt the level of attractiveness of women than women have of men. That’s been statistically proven. You wonder why a lot of women don’t find a lot of men that attractive and why so many men complain that women just have high standards

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Anonymous #3 1w

We don’t. You just simply don’t want to take care of yourself knowing there are ways to do so. There are men online that even guide you on how to do so with face care, body care, at home grooming etc. if you don’t want their guidance that’s on you but they’re thriving rn. That’s why OP said why should attractive women be giving unattractive guys the time of day. Attractive men don’t give unattractive women the time of day

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Anonymous #3 1w

She’s leveling the playing field that men created. No harm in that

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Anonymous #3 1w

And if you look at my comments I said that I don’t like those men. That’s a mighty accusation. Ig when someone calls out a generalization that means they’re part of that group? That’s a slippery slope.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Thank you, I don’t understand the fuss. Genuinely I’m not dehumanizing anyone. Just stating my experience but leave it to incels to hurt their own feelings and try to get you to say sorry.

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Anonymous OP 1w

You’d call me an incel if I made the same post but about women yet you make a post like this

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Anonymous #5 1w

Literally 8 said the same thing and there’s no harm in that. It’s from his personal experience around skinny women without fat shaming or skinny shaming. When ppl get cocky they turn into shitty ppl and think they’re better than everyone else. That’s the point

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Anonymous #3 1w

It’s like a skinny person forcing their bf to hit the gym bc they’re skinny and he’s not. Why are you with him then hello??

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Anonymous #3 1w

We both know 8 did it to get a rise out of people

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Anonymous OP 1w

All I’m really saying is An attractive person cheating on you isn’t any better than an ugly person doing it but you keep implying otherwise. Idk how that makes me an incel but ok

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yes I know cheating is bad period. I’m not trying to compare the two. My original point was why is it frequently the men who look like they snuck on earth who fumble and hurt the most beautiful and kind women. To say that’s not some some kid of injustice is delusional and downright ignorant

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Anonymous #2 1w

Like where do they find that sense of entitlement? Being unattractive is one thing but ugly men will weaponize their low self esteem and hurt the one woman who gave them a chance.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Why are you trying to gaslight their comment. Theirs isn’t a problem

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Anonymous #3 1w

Ok big dawg I ain’t doing this

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Anonymous #2 1w

Oh well whoopty doo. wtf do you want women to do? Give more ppl an ego boost? At least attractive ppl know they’re just attractive enough to have done it. Otherwise you know you likely aren’t securing women like that again by a long shot if she’s superficial. I’m not hurting myself to boost another insecure man’s impotence. I’ve done it before and refuse to ever do it again

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Anonymous #5 1w

You never had to in the beginning “big shot”. Prime example of our point

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Anonymous #3 1w

So many women have experienced this too which makes me feel less alone. The dating pool already sucks, the last thing we need is people defending these men

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Anonymous #3 1w

Again your misconstruing what 2 said

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Anonymous OP 1w

No one here has been defending them 😭

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Anonymous #8 1w

And that’s completely your preference. Is your preference going to feel the same way about you? That’s another discussion but it allowed to be attracted to your type.

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Anonymous #5 1w

I genuinely don’t understand what you’re trying to get at then. Everything I’ve said isn’t anything new either, so many women have gone through the same thing. The upvotes speak for themselves NO ONE is boosting an ugly man’s ego in 2026. NEXT.

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Anonymous OP 1w

They refuse to understand it and choose to be purposefully dense. At least if I got manipulated I can say I at least liked the guy. Had the gut wrenching feeling that I accidentally gave a guy who wasn’t my type an ego boost and when I broke up with him he decided to call me a whore and that “he has options”. Mind you I never once slept with this guy ever

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Anonymous #3 1w

I was literally a virgin and he has since lost his virginity at 14! 😭

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Anonymous #3 1w

And like I said guys like that can fuck off

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Anonymous #3 1w

They’re disgusting, I hate that so many of them are like that

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Anonymous #5 1w

Did you say that or were you whining about the ugly part the whole time? Bc we’ve been saying that so where have you been

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Anonymous OP 1w

How is that injustice any different than an attractive person hurting someone beautiful? Why does looks even come into the equation? There are lots of conventionally attractive people that have low self esteem too.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I said it at least 2 other times, go back and read

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Anonymous #5 1w

So why are you complaining about irrelevant things

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Anonymous #2 1w

Idk if anyone told you this but looks do matter to an extent. Especially when ur dating someone. Hope that doesn’t rattle your false reality too bad

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Anonymous #3 1w

good for you? I never implied giving anyone an ego boost but go off

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Anonymous #3 1w

My issue was with the line “men will do you wrong so pick a cute one” is similar to the types of guys that only go after women for their bodies. I never said they can’t have preferences, it’s just that line is a little close to the mindset of some of the most misogynistic men

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Anonymous #5 1w

It’s not. So as I said you’re whining about the cute part you were not saying the same thing we’re saying at all but instead irrelevant stuff and overthinking something dumb

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s…literally the full point of OP’s post do either of you read to comprehend or do you read to hate women

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Anonymous #3 1w

Like I wouldn’t care if men didn’t give women they don’t find attractive any attention whatsoever bc that saves them energy also with giving those women ego boosts and also hurting self esteem even further. Just give attention to ppl you’re attracted to and that are attractive in your view. Problem solved. Giving unattractive ppl your energy is just draining on both sides

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Anonymous #3 1w

No, yall just read to hate men seemingly. Cause personally I’ve never had the thought “women are gonna do me wrong anyways so might as well pick a cute one.” It’s not about preferences, it’s the fact that line implies that they think the opposite sex is gonna do them wrong no matter what

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Anonymous #3 1w

Kinda like giving insecure incels a chance. When all they’re gonna do is push their insecurities onto you. At least date a guy who was attractive and confident which I think is what OP meant if you decided to use a bit of context clues or if you actually experienced what a lot of us have so instead of complaining you’d just relate

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Anonymous #5 1w

Orrr you’re just an incel that thinks any dig at women’s grievances is hating men. Especially if he’s unattractive. Bc none of u complain when women complain if the guy is attractive. Bc plenty of women complain about attractive men also. Bc it’s just an incompetent man thing not an ugly vs cute thing. Which is why that specific comment offended you. NOTHING ELSE THAT ANYONE SAID OFFENDED YOU BUT THAT CUTE COMMENT. And it shows

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Anonymous #5 1w

Most men do women wrong lmaoo the divorce rate is so high with 25% of the men admitting to cheating. Yes there is a good chance they will do you dirty. Might as well pick one that’s attractive

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Anonymous OP 1w

No shit sherlock. I never said looks don’t matter. I honestly just give up with this conversation. At this point we’re just speaking past each other.

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Anonymous #3 1w

It doesn’t show cause idgaf about being in a relationship 😭

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Anonymous #2 1w

Bc you’re both willfully ignorant to her post. No point in getting across to incels

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Anonymous #5 1w

That’s also not the point she made bc she never specified a relationship. Just loud, wrong and stupid

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Anonymous #3 1w

Are you daft? This whole thing is about relationships. You know what incels also want/do? Sex and relationships and blame women for not having those. You just called me one and I told you I don’t care about those things, therefore how can I be an incel?

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Anonymous #5 1w

Then don’t waste ur time complaining about something that doesn’t even affect you in any way?

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Anonymous #5 1w

So you’re just complaining to complain ? got it!

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Anonymous #3 1w

The fact that you missed #5 say guys like that can fuck off multiple times then ask if I read to comprehend or read to hate women…. are you even reading to comprehend???

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Anonymous OP 1w

No I just don’t like when people are generalized and advising against negative ways of thinking

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Anonymous #5 1w

It’s not about relationships? I can give an unattractive guy my attention RIGHT NOW in the middle of the street and he can still try to belittle me

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yes you both wanted to find something to be mad about and well you found it. My cute comment triggered something deep didn’t it :/

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Anonymous #3 1w

By simply letting him talk

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Anonymous #2 1w

Are you both mentally this stupid? Do you just read something and it says something entirely different? Do you have dyslexia? A reading disability? Lack of reading comprehension? All of the above?

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Anonymous #3 1w

Keep moving the goal post

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Anonymous #5 1w

How am I generalizing ? I never said ALL men did I ?

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Anonymous #5 1w

Oh well whoopty fucking do. Bc no one said all men or anyone for that fucking matter. It doesn’t affect you so now you’re just a whiny captain save a hoe

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Anonymous #3 1w

Also how do you fucking know he would do that? You just assumed he would, you just don’t like men

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Anonymous OP 1w

Ahh yess I was just searching for an ignorant post like yours to argue on 🙄

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Anonymous #5 1w

There’s also nothing wrong with not liking men btw.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yep you’re an incel alright? Bc where did I say he would. It’s possible but not completely uncertain. You just wanna bitch and complain about women talking about men. This convo was never for you. Bc you wanted any and all reasons to cry that women just hate ALL men or whatever you losers cry abt in the incel community

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Anonymous OP 1w

Um yes there is, you can’t just hate on your fellow human just cause of their sex 😭

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Anonymous #5 1w

We live in the real world lmaoo. We know how men behave, you might be too busy being a keyboard warrior to know that though 😔

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Anonymous #3 1w

And rightfully so! Yeah I don’t like a lot of men bc a lot of men lack social awareness. Those are the men I hate. I don’t hate ALL men or that means I’d hate my friends and family dumb fuck

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Anonymous #3 1w

You just said you could give an ugly guy attention on the street and that he’d still try to belittle you. Are you Aqua?

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Anonymous #5 1w

Not liking and hating are two separate issues beloved. I never said hate. I guess lesbians just HATE men huh

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Anonymous #5 1w

I never said I hate men for the sole reason they’re men you Neanderthal

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Anonymous #5 1w

So attractive ppl exist. Do I hate them? No. Can I hate them? Yes. Just bc I’m not into ugly men doesn’t mean I just generally hate men that’s actually the dumbest thing I’ve heard all day

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Anonymous #3 1w

Pay attention who I’m replying to dumbass

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Anonymous OP 1w

No, lesbians don’t necessarily dislike men, they don’t find men attractive. There’s a big fucking difference

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Anonymous #5 1w

You are a whiny manchild omg

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yall just as whiny, you felt the need to make a whiny post first too

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yeah and I don’t find men I’m not into attractive. So 🤡

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Anonymous #5 1w

That’s what I was getting at. I said there’s nothing wrong with not liking them. What’s it to you if I don’t like men ? does that affect your life in any way ? No? Then shut the fuck up

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Anonymous #3 1w

Doesn’t mean I dislike a person bc I’m not attracted to them so why is it diff when lesbian women do it compared to straight women

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Anonymous #5 1w

You felt triggered enough to respond to my whiny post. Go to your room manchild.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Eh I don’t see a point in arguing with dumbfounded incels. They get whiny every single time women say they won’t date a guy they don’t find attractive as if it’s the end of the world if the woman doesn’t. They want women to lower their desires so bad to make them feel good. It’s not like we doing the same archetypes attractive either so they’re just blindly arguing about nothing

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yeah it’s not worth it. Their rebuttals are hilarious, I can tell I have more testosterone than both of them combined. Poor little guys

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Anonymous #3 1w

No one ever said anything about lowering your desires or dating a guy you don’t find attractive. You aren’t even capable of responding to anything we’re saying you constantly pivot to something else every time.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I never complained about yall only dating men you find attractive, how many times do I have to say it

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Anonymous #5 1w

It’s useless. there’s no brains over there, just pure testosterone

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Anonymous #2 1w

Now they’re complaining to themselves lmao. They’re miserable! At least someone has testosterone around here

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Anonymous #5 1w

Men aren’t equals LOL

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Anonymous OP 1w

Genuinely why are they mad? Good looking guys get the attention, that’s just how it be?

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Anonymous #9 1w

Cuz they’re ugly probably

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Anonymous #9 1w

Idk they keep spewing that on here then complain when they realize the hard truth. I mean if you know the reality why complain about it 😭

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Anonymous #3 1w

Cuz what’s an ugly guy that can’t get women supposed to do ?

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Anonymous #7 1w

Go on their little Reddit account and complain …not here

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Anonymous #7 1w

Idk maybe stop blaming women for your lack of attention or getting laid like a freaking incel bc that’s not our problem

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yall don’t choose the ugly men tho

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Anonymous #7 1w

Neither do men so. Still not my problem

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Anonymous #3 1w

Take it to incel Reddit

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Anonymous #9 1w

Yea cuz we r better

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Anonymous #8 1w

Exactly! W man

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