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do you care if your bf “flirts” a little but doesn’t mean to hurt you and aren’t his intentions?
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Anonymous 4w

uh yes... if it's enough to be considered flirting then it shouldn't have happened. If it's just a neutral compliment or way of words that someone else took wrong then no, but personally my boyfriend would never even give the flirting vibe to anyone else.

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Anonymous 4w

that’s just disrespectful

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Anonymous 4w

absolutely yes. being nice is one thing, but flirting is a no. what has he done

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

btw you don't to have a whole fight about it, but if it hurt you and he still doesn't acknowledge it or apologize what HE did then that's more the issue that you should consider moving forwards

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Well I kinda created a fight bc when he talks to girls it comes off very flirty and they think he’s single and flirty but those maybe aren’t his intentions.. idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

no no that's when it's okay to start a fight, that kind of behavior is disrespectful and hurtful. I had an ex who had a "flirty personality" and we are still slightly friends today and the way I hear him talk about his girlfriends and many hookups is honestly disturbing knowing I was part of that. But I thought he was the most perfect guy at the time and would never hurt me or cheat. At the end of the day he's probably not going to change and you should make boundaries or rethink the future

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