Ask Women on Sidechat | I feel like men underestimate how much (decent)women worry about sexual assault, or even the potential of being raped. Do men realize just how many women fear men because they don’t want to be raped? Ex:why men claim there’s a “male loneliness epidemic”

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Ask Women 5w

I feel like men underestimate how much (decent)women worry about sexual assault, or even the potential of being raped. Do men realize just how many women fear men because they don’t want to be raped? Ex:why men claim there’s a “male loneliness epidemic”

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Anonymous 5w

I just told my dad I don’t want to be in a car, learning to drive with a man. He didn’t understand until I explained that it “doesn’t feel safe”, because it isn’t.

Anonymous 5w

these people always sound like theyre telling on themselves…you would only be so fearful of this if u gave women a reason to accuse u of being rapey. no woman is screaming rape to the heavens bc u said “hi how r u” and then walked away once she gave a clear no. like truly if ur this worried abt being called a rapist there must be a reason…guilty consciences tell on themselves all the time

Anonymous 5w

Honestly, I think women are afraid because they watch too much SVU and think it’s more common than it actually is.

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Anonymous 5w

So what I’m getting from this is that a lot of women will assume I am a potential criminal threat with depraved intentions just because I am a man, without even knowing anything else about me.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Given that there isn’t anything I can really do about that situation, I no longer feel comfortable approaching women in ANY context, for fear of making them uncomfortable. Logically I know I am a respectful person who wouldn’t even think of doing something so disgusting to a woman, even still I’d rather resign myself to loneliness than risk a woman’s comfort.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Forgive me, but I don’t see a way out that doesn’t involve me and millions of other decent men living and dying alone.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

With this in mind, I (and millions of other decent men) have elected to acknowledge that women do not have our best interests at heart, and thus we have decided to ignore their advice altogether. Hope this helps :)

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Taking a post about rampant violence against women and making it about you is crazy work. Mfs so desperate to hate women

Anonymous

#4 5w

I’m sorry that we don’t have your best interest at heart because we don’t want to be raped. Do you fucking hear yourself?

Anonymous

#4 5w

Also if there is a male loneliness epidemic that literally means there has to be a female loneliness epidemic, but you don’t see that being talked about, maybe because it’s not a real issue. Boohoo you’re alone because you’re a piece of shit

Anonymous

#5 5w

I don’t hate women

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Anonymous

OP 5w

Thanks.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

I’m so sorry that women’s precautions to avoid being raped is affecting your chance of getting laid. Must be so hard that that is your biggest concern

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yeah, living and dying alone isn’t ideal

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Must be so hard to be a privileged man who never has to fear about being raped. Maybe you’re better off with lead in your head because you can’t get a date 😢 poor baby is screaming for help because he can’t get a good fuck while millions of women are raped and left for dead

Anonymous

OP 5w

I’ve been sexually assaulted.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Aww must be hard! So hard you poor baby! While there are actual problems you have to learn how to be independent!

Anonymous

#4 5w

Okay and? That doesn’t negate anything said. I have too. The male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist. Your loneliness is a non issue

Anonymous

OP 5w

What is wrong with you?

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Anonymous

#4 5w

What the fuck is wrong with you. Saying because women don’t want to be raped you have to be alone. It’s a non issue. Learn how to be alone, also women are still dating, it’s a you problem if they don’t want to date you. Love that you blame women for not wanting to be raped and you blame women for you being sad and alone. You’d always be sad and alone because you clearly are a piece of shit

Anonymous

OP 5w

That’s obviously a bad faith characterization of what I said. Anyone can see that. Take a deep breath.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

It’s really not. You said that because women are taking precautions to not be raped, you will “die alone” get on a dating app, but my guess you already are and no woman has matched with you because you’re… “a decent guy”

Anonymous

#4 5w

Telling me to calm down when your biggest issue is being sad and alone while my biggest issue is when is the next time I’ll be assaulted. Not if. When.

Anonymous

OP 5w

I’m not on any dating apps. I have never used them. All I said was that I was going to ignore women’s advice, because it doesn’t seem to come from a place of genuine care.

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Anonymous

OP 5w

I told you to take a deep breath because you said I should off myself.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Correct, the advice isn’t for you. It’s for women so we aren’t raped. Not everything is for you, for men, and boohoo you are so privileged that you don’t care. But you’re a “decent” guy huh? Ignoring women’s wishes for your own interests is pretty decent I guess

Anonymous

#4 5w

Well you see pretty miserable being sad and alone, I gave you your best outcome because you clearly are going to be sad and alone forever

Anonymous

OP 5w

If I have to die alone to be “decent” by your standards, your standards are clearly not considerate of my best interest, and so I should discard them.

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Anonymous

#4 5w

“Decent” by my standards is listening to women and respecting their decisions and not whining about how our decisions to avoid rape affects your game

Anonymous

#4 5w

You’re such a privileged man. Crying about how you’ll be alone because women don’t want to be raped. That is what you are saying.

Anonymous

OP 5w

I’m making a decision to not listen to advice that comes from someone eager for me to off myself

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Anonymous

#4 5w

“i’m not listening to u because i know you’re right and i sound like an even bigger incel so i’m going to make myself the victim even more” type shit

Anonymous

#7 5w

If I took OP’s opinion seriously, my dad would have just found my body right about now