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Why are some friends so unsupportive when you tell them you want to lose weight or get in shape, they literally told me I don’t love myself. What is wrong with wanting to be healthy😭
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Anonymous 6w

I have the opposite problem. I don’t like telling people I’m trying to because they’re too supportive if that makes sense. A simple, “ah, cool. Good luck,” would suffice.

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Anonymous 6w

Idk maybe they had an ed or saw someone else develop one from that and so theyre worried ab you?

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Anonymous 6w

I told my friend I was trying to lose weight and she deemed it unnecessary because she weighs more than me 💀

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Anonymous 6w

im not a woman but please get new friends bro

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Anonymous 6w

from my experience if you’re typically over weight and they’re not, they’re using you to look better infront of people

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Anonymous 6w

There could be many reasons. But it’s your body so you take care of it as you wish

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Anonymous 6w

Because they’re retroactively been conditioned by society with the relative recent cultural shift

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Anonymous 6w

That or they like “but you’re so pretty!!” Like I said I was fat not ugly.

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Anonymous 6w

They don’t wanna see you look better than them

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Anonymous 6w

Your fatass friends are hardcore coping

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Anonymous 6w

Those aren’t friends babe

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Anonymous 6w

Because they are jealous that they don’t have that drive and they don’t want you to make them look bad, they think supporting you would mean they have to do something about themselves

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Anonymous 6w

Female stigma is to accept what you’re got simple as that

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Anonymous 6w

Do you boo, you do wtv you want and what makes you happy. Fuck everyone else’s opinion

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Anonymous 6w

My friends definitely don’t do this. I think you need new friends bruh 😭

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Anonymous 6w

cause they’re chuds

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Anonymous 6w

Sounds like your friend needs to lose weight

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Anonymous 6w

I just remind people that weight and health don’t have anywhere near as close correlations as many people think, and make sure that they’re losing weight because they want to and not because they feel they’re expected to

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Anonymous 6w
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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6w

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

🤣🤣🤣you dead funny for this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Boo 🍅

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

🍅🍅🍅 you suck

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