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18 upvotes, 6 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women.

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Anonymous 1d

I wonder who was commenting on the separate posts. I’ve seen a lot of guys post things about his insecurities and other men talk about the gym, changing, getting a better mindset etc.

Anonymous 1d

I think this comes down to the part where you say “the world expects a man to change for success”.. the men telling other men they need to change and the women telling other women they can be loved for who they are, are not the same people. Men tell overweight women they should change themselves in order to be loved all the time, and plenty of women love and accept bigger guys for who they are and talk about them the same way they talk about bigger women

Anonymous

#2 1d

Also something I notice a lot among men is an obsession with the gym. For a lot of guys it’s easier to stick to a physical routine than to work on their emotional and mental health, so a lot of them obsessively work out if they’re struggling to date or if they get broken up with because they believe their body type is the only thing holding them back, so it’s just become the norm to tell insecure guys to use the gym as a metaphorical bandaid

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 1d

Oh idk i just saw a tiktok post and it made me think to post here

Anonymous

#2 20h

You know a physical routine can improve emotional and mental health right?

Anonymous

#3 19h

It can, but a lot of men ONLY go to the gym and refuse to confide in friends/family, seek therapy, and often discourage other men from doing those things in favor of the gym