Ask Women on Sidechat | Ok so it's really difficult to talk to people and make friends without the context of parties and drinking, does anybody know what to do about that? I've heard it's a really common experience but never had a real convo about it with someone who's past it.

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Ok so it's really difficult to talk to people and make friends without the context of parties and drinking, does anybody know what to do about that? I've heard it's a really common experience but never had a real convo about it with someone who's past it.

Anonymous 3w

Bc in college most of my friends loved to drink and party and I did for a bit but for the majority of college I hated it so I might be able to help bc I’ve been on both sides of the coin

Anonymous 3w

Are you in college or out of college? Or neither

Anonymous

#1 3w

in college right now. Sober me is just kinda awkward and quiet so it's hard to meet people yk

Anonymous

OP 3w

Does your campus do events? Might be easier that way.

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Anonymous

OP 3w

No thats the major problem my dude. You need to learn how to turn the sober you, into the real you

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Anonymous

#3 3w

I know that sounds too deep, but what you are looking for is something that cant really be taught. Unless you really find a way yourself to develop true confidence, you are never really going to feel truly comfortable talking to people. Anything else is cope, or at the very least assuming in the context of this forum which I assume thats the case