Anonymous #2 19h

this is the worst advice. marrying someone without knowing what they’re like to live with is an awful idea

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Anonymous #5 18h

I feel like a woman should always have a way to leave fully living with a man idk

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Anonymous #2 18h

Wild statement. What about roommates? We can rarely afford houses in this economy

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Anonymous #7 17h

I can work with roommates !

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Anonymous #5 17h

IMO you should already know for certain that you’re gonna marry that person. How can you live with someone before you l know them?

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Anonymous #8 16h

what? you date for a while, move in when serious, then get married. who said anything about living with someone you don’t know??

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Anonymous #5 16h

I’m saying that moving in with someone before marrying them seems like a cop out. Marriage is a commitment and I don’t think you should have to move in with someone just to make sure you can marry them, it should be the other way around. It’s the difference between testing compatibility versus making a commitment first and learning to build a life together after.

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Anonymous #8 16h

Y’all seem like you’re just scaredy-cats of commitment

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Anonymous #8 16h

If both people know they’re fully committed, they may work harder through conflicts instead of treating the relationship as temporary.

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Anonymous #8 15h

why make a commitment before knowing you’re compatible first?? testing compatibility is literally step 1 in the commitment process… why wait til after you get married to potentially realize you’re not a match and have to get a whole divorce rather than simply having to break up with someone? this isn’t about being scared to commit, it’s about knowing when it’s appropriate to commit to someone before you actually do it. you’re literally making 0 sense…

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Anonymous #5 10m

I’m saying you should already know beforehand; without living with each other how the person acts now the person lives.

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