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I’m black & was dating a white guy. I dumped him bc he would joke ab the N word one too many times & would make my skin colour the butt of his jokes on many occasions, I just grew resentful after a while. Everyone around me keeps telling me to give 1/2
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Anonymous 5w

Fuckkkk no anyone who is that abnormally obsessed with that word has some stuff internally that they’re not disclosing to you

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Anonymous 5w

him a second chance & acting like I was overreacting. I don’t think I was? I’m quite confused on why people are making me feel otherwise. Any thoughts on my decision to leave?

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Anonymous 5w

Damn that’s fucked up as a white guy I wouldn’t think of doing that, in general, but especially if I was dating a black woman

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Anonymous 5w

You’d probably have left earlier for less with a black guy

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Anonymous 5w

I’m ngl I do that with my guy friends we play with race more than we date people but we don’t do it all the time there’s a point and time for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

And I mean fuck no do not give him another chance, find someone who doesn’t make you uncomfortable like this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

don’t give him a second chance someone who loves you would not do that he wouldn’t make you feel uncomfortable that’s inappropriate & he knows it & ur not wrong for leaving u made the right decision!! (:

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I would personally cut those people around you off too. I have zero tolerance for casual racism and those who enable it.

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