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What can I do to improve my dating app profiles like picture ideas or what I don’t know if I’m chopped or if (not trying to be that guy) women just swipe left when they see I’m 5’9 which ig is understandable since apps are basically hot or not
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Anonymous 4d

i wouldn’t swipe left if you were 5’9 there’s stuff besides height people love. who cares about height, also 5’9 is tall to me

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Anonymous 4d

Honestly 5’9 is pretty tall to me

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Anonymous 4d

Avoid weird photos (for example, I personally think dead animals photos are weird) or group photos with hotter friends

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Anonymous 2d

theres so much that could stop you from having success on dating apps. im gonna tell you rn, height doesn’t mean anything on there, if you cant “compensate” in other areas. also, theres no direct formula you can follow, because dating in miami is different than dating in wyoming. best tips i can give are have a decent career so you’re not broke asf and losing money on apps, take nice pictures, take professional photoshoot pictures, have things about you that standout/showcase you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

you want to showcase that you actually are willing to try, and that you’re a dude with a lot of life to give. so yeah having a life outside of basic things every guy does will help with this. showcase how fun you can be with your hobbies… you gotta showcase how you view yourself to the maximum degree

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I just used height cause all my friends are over 6 foot so I get called short a lot so ig im insecure lol, also it’s hard for me to find good pictures cause I hate taking them of myself so my camera roll is just my dog or pictures of things I like but none with me in them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

trust me bro i understand and relate to that completely lol. the reality of dating apps in 2025 is that you will have to put in great amount of effort to really see results. in real life a lot of people think im basically a model, but you’d never be able to guess that if i were on dating apps. i got a decent buzz on the apps but ultimately i knew the #1 thing holding me back were pictures. even the mid chicks on apps usually have some decent pictures, compared to most dudes who simply dont try.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

i say all this to say, thats part of why i dont currently use dating apps, and i really dot. even recommend them unless you have disposable income and know you’d make a killing on there. the dudes who have the most success on these apps are more than likely already well established men, and women usually think the profiles are fake due to how uncommon these dudes are. you really do have to stand out have success on these apps. i think if you’re even remotely attractive, youll have significantly

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

more success in person, and actually just being a good person to talk to in real life. it will also become easier if you can get people who are actually interested in you to take pics and all that stuff.

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