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Boyfriend didn’t make any plans for today… I’m so tired of being the one that has to make plans, genuinely what do I do? Like I don’t want to do nothing because then I’m upset and he’s upset
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Anonymous 12w

He bought my flowers and candy and all that stuff a few days ago and asked me to be his valentine but then I get no plan for the day of…

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Anonymous 12w

Just have a conversation with him. Don’t come in in a blaming way or accusatory, but tell him how you feel. I’ve been in that position before and it generally helps to just lay it out there

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah like many people are saying here Talk to him, tell him how you’re feeling without going in looking for an argument. Actually taking it slow and telling him how what he’s Not doing. but Good luck and I hope the talk goes well!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’d tell him how you feel, as much as it sucks to get into a sad/uncomfortable conversation on Valentine’s Day I think it’s better than making yourself put on a happy face. Hopefully he’ll realize his error and can take you out for a special night of your own sometime after today

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